[UndeadJR]

I been wondering is it OK to date a 14 year who likes you very much and your like 18 and that you like her so much anyway m,y question is is it OK to date a 14 year old even if your 18

[kctiger]

NO! In my honest opinion, there is way too much of a maturity difference between the two. I do not think this would be appropriate, however that is just my opinion.

[NallaNeedsYou]

I agree that it is on the limit but actually maturity isn't entirly based on age. Also it depends what you want from the relationship. Do you want to marry this person, live with them? Or just have a laugh and go to parties? It depends whether the 18yr old is mature enough to understand people's views on it and understands that although she may be funny and 'hot' as you might see that only leads to a relationship collpasing because the insentives are wrong and the bases of your 'love' for each other is immature and pointless to the extent that you only learn through the relationship breaking down and only then if you can see why it went wrong and then act on your mistakes. It comes down to the situation. This is all just my opinion.

[Justwantfair]

My opinion is No also and depending on your state law the legal system may agree with me. When the 18 yr old becomes an adult, the 14 yr old is at most 15 yrs old and many states consider that statuatory rape.

[talaniman]

Not my 14 year old, that's for sure.

[AliceSwen]

No it can't be with a 14 year old when your 18 because when you're an adult you'll be full grown and shed still be a teen maybe even a naughty teen while you're a full grown adult.