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RedBrightsx3 · Jun 24, 2012, 05:22 PM

It's absuletly HORRIBLE. Ever since I was 9 Years old, my parents (mostly my mom), was OBSESSED about me getting my period. Almost every night, She would pull the blankets off me, and check my underwear. She did it at sleep overs, she did it when she was doing my laundry, (I know every parent does this, But she'd take my under wear, put it in a special pile, INSPECT it, scrub it clean with her hands, and put it in a plastic bag) she did it when I went to the bathroom at public places. She would even go to my school and ASK THE PRINCIPAL for EVERY note about stomach pains. It was terrible. Every sleep over I had with somebody, she would ask the girls/girl I was with to tell her if I was going to the bathroom a lot. It was embarrassing. Extreamly. I told her to stop doing it, but she ALWAYS screamed at me. Even with my chest, she would call me over the phone, and tell me my chest was growing. She would tell the lady/man at the store to find clothes for "Growing woman". She would go INTO my shower, look at me, look down and up, I would scream at her, Hit with soap, and SCREAM for her to leave. Just PLEAD. I lock the doors and everything, and then she took it to the next level by REMOVING ALL THE LOCKS IN THE WHOLE HOUSE. She even took the manner of removing my DOOR.

Now, I'm 15, And its starting up again. My mom has been OVER REACTING about my boobs, the boys I hang out with, and my personal privacy. I can't even put up my CLOTHES with out her checking for sperm! She actually takes ALL OF MY CLOTHES, SMELLS THEM, AND THEN WASHES THEM WITH HER HANDS. She even has "Talks" with the boys that I hang out with about sexing me up. She puts pregnancy tests in my BAG FOR SCHOOL, and then she leaves a note saying "If you ever need it!" She goes into my room at night, and feels me down. For like, no reason. I've screamed at her about this, And then my DAD started doing it, asking me if I've ever had sex, telling me about sex... telling my girl pals about sex, Telling MY GUY FRIENDS about sex... I've talked to the school helper, I've talked to my friends moms, I've talked to my own parents. This. Needs. To. Stop. It's like I'm 11 all over again. Please. HELP ME. I've done almost every possible thing. I've even talked to the police about them feeling me up. Please. Help me. </3

C0bra_M3nace · Jun 24, 2012, 05:27 PM

If you've already talked to them then there's not much else you can do. Talked to the police about them feeling you up? You're going to have to come up with something better than that to get their attention on the subject.

Kid be happy your parents even care about you that much to be involved. A lot of kids have drunk or addict parents who beat their kids until there's nothing left but a bruised body and an empty soul.

Fr_Chuck · Jun 24, 2012, 05:28 PM

Ok, I will be honest I don't believe a word of this, I was OK maybe, till you added your dad doing it also.

But if it is real, call social services and/or child protective services and report this, it has long ago crossed the line into emotional abuse.

Dad talking to your girl friends about sex is most likely illegal also

RedBrightsx3 · Jun 24, 2012, 05:30 PM

True. The funny thing is, I'm not an only child. They did NONE of this with my sister. I'm not happy at all they care. They care TOO much. Coming into my bed at night, feeling me up and down? That's just too much.

C0bra_M3nace · Jun 24, 2012, 05:34 PM

Originally Posted by RedBrightsx3

True. The funny thing is, I'm not an only child. They did NONE of this with my sister. I'm not happy at all they care. They care TOO much. Coming into my bed at night, feeling me up and down? Thats just too much.

I'm sorry but if you told the police this and they did nothing at all about it, I'd probably take a wild guess at saying the level of intensity you make this out to be is exaggerated. A cop would arrest your father immediately if you told them he touches you sexually. Period.

Homegirl 50 · Jun 24, 2012, 06:55 PM

Originally Posted by C0bra_M3nace

I'm sorry but if you told the police this and they did nothing at all about it, I'd probably take a wild guess at saying the level of intensity you make this out to be is exaggerated. A cop would arrest your father immediately if you told them he touches you sexually. Period.

That's what I was thinking. He would have been arrested and she would have been removed from the home.

joypulv · Jun 25, 2012, 01:32 AM

I don't read anything unbelievable here.
Redbright, are your parents from another country or culture?

C0bra_M3nace · Jun 25, 2012, 03:57 AM

Originally Posted by joypulv

I don't read anything unbelievable here.
Redbright, are your parents from another country or culture?

I never said anything was unbelievable, I just questioned whether she was exaggerating or not.

Jake2008 · Jun 25, 2012, 04:13 AM

Joy makes a good point about perhaps a cultural 'protectiveness' going on here.

But, regardless of that, if what you say is truthful, you need to make a copy of your post here, and take it to your school counsellor, who in turn, has a legal obligation to report what clearly looks like abuse, and questionable behaviour that needs investigated, to the authorities.

In civilized countries, appropriate authorities would see the immediate need to check this out. In civilized countries, it is inappropriate, and illegal to 'feel up and down' a naked 15 year old. That this has gone on for six years, needs investigation in my opinion.