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    May 29, 2012, 08:12 PM
    Boyfriend of a year and a half, no sex in 3 months!
    Hi!

    My boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for almost a year and a half. He is a great guy; however, our sex life has become lack luster.

    We have not had finished sex in over 3 months. He make excuses when I initiate (I'm tired/full, I need to pee, etc). I've asked him before what has changed and he says nothing, that he is just stressed out but still wants sex.

    Something just doesn't seem right. Intuitively, something is giving me bad vibes. I don't know if he'd cheat but I really am concerned, as we were having sex almost every day, multiple times.
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    May 29, 2012, 08:43 PM
    He's probably wanting you to do something different. Are you guys having sex on the same positions all the time? Try riding him, so he feels that you can take control, most guys find that sexy. It could be that or he may be cheating and feels bad to touch you sexually. But don't get too nervous. Just watch him carefully. Hope this helps! :)
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    May 30, 2012, 06:45 AM
    How old are you both?

    He's not happy about something... and just hasn't had the nerve to bring it up... more likely it's a combination of that and stress... etc...
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    May 30, 2012, 07:15 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    How old are you both?

    He's not happy about something ...and just hasn't had the nerve to bring it up.....more likely its a combination of that and stress....etc...
    I am 20 and he's 29.
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    May 30, 2012, 07:31 AM
    Ok... to add to what I said earlier.. does he get annual physicals? Is his job exhausting or does he worry about getting laid off?
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