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    Aug 11, 2010, 12:46 PM
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    Hello,
    So there's this girl I like, and I am almost certain she likes me too, or at least she shows interest. We met a few weeks before, and been talking every few days, mostly casually with mild flirting. This one time, we were texting and flirting more than usual, so I decided to make my feelings (perhaps intentions would be a better suitable word, however you see it) clear. She texted me around 2 hrs after my last text saying she is always happy. This wasn't out of the random and the text itself was very in context of the conversation. I texted back saying, Because of me? With a winkie face, and she hasn't responded ever since. It's been a day or two, and I am seeing her in few days at a party for sure.. What should I do to avoid all awkwardness?
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    Aug 11, 2010, 12:56 PM

    Let her make the next move.
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    Aug 11, 2010, 12:58 PM

    Send her a text just saying "hello I hope things are OK"
    See if she responds. If she doesn't maybe something happened to her phone, or maybe she is not longer interested
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    Aug 11, 2010, 01:35 PM

    Are you of drinking age? It really doesn't matter. At the party bring her a drink and then ;) at her, while smiling. Break the ice my man!
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    Aug 11, 2010, 02:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Send her a text just saying "hello I hope things are OK"
    See if she responds. If she doesn't maybe something happened to her phone, or maybe she is not longer interested
    I would, but I'm afraid it'll just be totally awkward. I see her online on Facebook, and she knows I'm on too, and I don't know how to describe it, but it's just weird! I know I'm going to be seeing her in a few days, I just don't know what I should say :confused:
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    Aug 11, 2010, 02:25 PM

    If you are face to face with her, you say hello and leave it at that.
    If she is just ignoring you she may be talking to someone else, but to not acknowledge you is rude.
    But people now a days seem to have no clue what rudeness is until they feel offended by someone.

    Don't woryy about it. You don't want someone who can be so rude anyway.
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    Aug 11, 2010, 04:58 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    If you are face to face with her, you say hello and leave it at that.
    If she is just ignoring you she may be talking to someone else, but to not acknowledge you is rude.
    But people now a days seem to have no clue what rudeness is until they feel offended by someone.

    Don't woryy about it. You don't want someone who can be so rude anyway.
    Thank you for your advice and I understand what you mean... But I honestly believe she wouldn't just ignore me or anything, or be purposely be rude. I really like this girl and wouldn't want the friendship I've built up to collapse. Do you have an idea of perhaps why she reacted the way she did, and how I could talk to her again? Thank you very much!
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    Aug 11, 2010, 05:03 PM

    Call her. I know the thing is to text, but you get a different feel about a person when you hear their voice.
    You say you see her on face book. Send her a private message. Tell her you were just wondering if your last text offended her since you did not hear back from her.
    If you get no response, then you know she is just not interested.
    I hope all of this is just an oversight and she is just not being rude.
    Good luck
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    Aug 15, 2010, 08:28 PM

    I don't know what kind of friendship you build over texting and Facebook, but just be friendly when you see her. I take it you have never met and really know little about each other so keep it casual, and friends.

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