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    #21

    Mar 31, 2010, 03:20 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by slapshot_oi View Post
    I don't think it's recognition/data mining software, it's probably as simple as the person searched Facebook for a lawyer named Judy (I assume that's your name) living in New York who's pics match the ones on AMHD.

    The rule of thumb is, if you don't know the person don't friend them. My local police department made a phony account and tried to friend all of the kids they wanted to keep tabs on. We caught on quickly when we saw a pattern in the sample of people they were requesting. I'm a small town boy.

    Oh my gosh! I know I was stupid. Wow.

    Nice to know the Police are more Facebook literate than I am! :D
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    Mar 31, 2010, 03:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by NeedKarma View Post
    Ah I see. If that person wasn't friended by you all they should see is that thumbnail, your networks and your friends listing...unless you opened up the privacy settings to allow all to view all.

    You aren't the first nor will you be the last to be social networked. A good habit would be this: when you get a friend request immediately go to their FB profile. Likely you can only see what I mentioned above. If they have absolutely no other friends and no friends in common then beware!

    Can't give you a thumbs up - so here's a pretend thumbs up. Thank you for the info. I didn't understand how any of this worked.

    Kind of you to take the time. I owe you.
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    Mar 31, 2010, 03:22 PM
    Could this be the same person who stole your identity while you were on your honeymoon?
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    Apr 6, 2010, 03:20 PM

    Well, you hit that on the head. Yes, I found out who it is/was. I'm sick to my stomach and, yes, it's the same person... and someone I know.

    I am rocked to my socks.

    Enough said but I have been betrayed (and feel violated) and, no, not by my husband.
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    Apr 6, 2010, 04:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Well, you hit that on the head. Yes, I found out who it is/was. I'm sick to my stomach and, yes, it's the same person ... and someone I know.

    I am rocked to my socks.

    Enough said but I have been betrayed (and feel violated) and, no, not by my husband.
    I hope the person can be arrested for cyber stalking and that FaceBook is cooperating to the fullest. I hate seeing crap happen to good people.
    If there is anything I can do let me know.
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    Apr 6, 2010, 04:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by califdadof3 View Post
    I hope the person can be arrested for cyber stalking and that FaceBook is cooperating to the fullest. I hate seeing crap happen to good people.
    If there is anything I can do let me know.


    Thanks - a cyberhug would help. I'm just shattered.
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    Apr 6, 2010, 04:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Thanks - a cyberhug would help. I'm just shattered.
    {HUGS} As you know there are idiots everywhere. But you don't need that kind of junk in your life. Nobody does. Again if there is any help or research I can do just keep me posted.
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    #28

    Apr 6, 2010, 04:30 PM

    Forgot to post this :)

    Ref:

    Cyberstalking Laws
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    Apr 6, 2010, 05:52 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Thanks - a cyberhug would help. I'm just shattered.
    I can't do much, but I can give hugs:

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    #30

    Apr 7, 2010, 04:17 AM
    Cyber hugs to you Judy. I'm sorry this had to happen to you.
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    Apr 7, 2010, 06:05 AM

    Some people really have nothing better to do than put others down :(

    I believe in Karma, they will get theirs.

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