[If_only]

Yes your words were a bit harsh I must say but its all right I appreciate you taking the time out to read it. It wasn't that I had trust issues with him because I really don't. I was his girlfriend and I figured I had the right to ask him whatever I want. If he wouldve answered me the right way the first time, I wouldn't feel the need to go on thinking why he only hides info about that one particular girl. And as far as bothering him goes, he has communication problems. I understand AT TIMES I blew up his phone but at the same time wasn't it his responsibility to show some care and pay attention to what I wanted to talk about when we were together? He never saw it that way. And yes I was wrong for being on his back when we were friends but he always gave me that vibe that he was mad or he hates me or something or he would make a remark and I wouldn't like it but to him it was a "joke." I understand I was wrong because no one is perfect but he wasn't all that great either for him to be the one to be ignoring me today like I fell off the face of the earth. If he was tired of it all then he shouldve been a adult about it and tell me he wanted a way out and not string me along saying "we can be friends."

Ps thanks to everyone else who left a comment. I appreciate it.

[Kitkat22]

Yes ur words were a bit harsh I must say but its alright I appreciate u taking the time out to read it. It wasn't that I had trust issues with him because I really don't. I was his gf and I figured I had the right to ask him whatever I want. If he wouldve answered me the right way the first time, I wouldn't feel the need to go on thinking why he only hides info about that one particular girl. And as far as bothering him goes, he has communication problems. I understand AT TIMES I blew up his phone but at the same time wasn't it his responsibility to show some care and pay attention to what I wanted to talk about when we were together? He never saw it that way. And yes I was wrong for being on his back when we were friends but he always gave me that vibe that he was mad or he hates me or something or he would make a remark and I wouldn't like it but to him it was a "joke." I understand I was wrong because no one is perfect but he wasn't all that great either for him to be the one to be ignoring me today like I fell off the face of the earth. If he was tired of it all then he shouldve been a adult about it and tell me he wanted a way out and not string me along saying "we can be friends."

Ps thanks to everyone else who left a comment. I appreciate it.

You will be fine! Keep in touch okay! Blessings:)

[If_only]

I'm just wondering how its so easy for people to just cut people out of their lives within seconds. He hasn't said a word to me for 16 days now and I haven't contacted him in 10 days. He's out partying with friends, commenting people on fb as if it's not effecting him one bit. Does he even know if I'm alive or not? I've blocked him through my fb since December and then deactivated my fb because I just didn't want it but I can't help but to go on my friends fb who has many friends common with him. I really wasn't that bad for him to just whip me out of his life and not care at all. People change like no tomorrow. =(

[amicon]

Do yourself a favour and stop checking him out on Facebook.

Don't feed your anger and pain,focus on getting over this and getting back to having a good,happy life.

Take care.

[swtsweety]

I'm just wondering how its so easy for people to just cut people out of their lives within seconds. He hasn't said a word to me for 16 days now and I havent contacted him in 10 days. He's out partying with friends, commenting people on fb as if it's not effecting him one bit. Does he even know if I'm alive or not? I've blocked him through my fb since December and then deactivated my fb because I just didn't want it but I can't help but to go on my friends fb who has many friends common with him. I really wasn't that bad for him to just whip me out of his life and not care at all. People change like no tomorrow. =(

I know how you feel about them letting you go in a matter of seconds. The guy I was seeing use to message me every day and say good morning and good night every single day. Now he won't give me the time of day because he needs some time to deal with his personal issues. It hurts us more then it hurts them. They don't understand how a woman can get a connection faster then they can, and then it is seen as rushing into things. I recently had a break up and it seems like it doesn't phase him either. If anything he has changed to a colder person. Not the person I liked in the beginning of our relationship. Everyone tells me I am better without him but I don't see it that way.:confused: Its really hard to let go, but it's the only thing we can do.

[Kitkat22]

I know how you feel about them letting you go in a matter of seconds. The guy I was seeing use to message me every day and say good morning and good night every single day. Now he won't give me the time of day because he needs some time to deal with his personal issues. It hurts us more then it hurts them. They don't understand how a woman can get a connection faster then they can, and then it is seen as rushing into things. I recently had a break up and it seems like it doesn't phase him either. If anything he has changed to a colder person. Not the person I liked in the beginning of our relationship. Everyone tells me I am better without him but I don't see it that way.:confused: Its really hard to let go, but its the only thing we can do.

Listen to this young lady and take her advice!:)

[myagony1234]

If_only sweetie,
You already said that he wanted to be free like a bird (in your post), but you stalked him against his will A LOT. He is very annoyed, and he does not want to be friend of you at all. Clean and simple.
Why on earth do you want to be a friend who is avoidng you?
Find someone else who will cherish you, and be happy. Cheers!

[Kitkat22]

if_only sweetie,
You already said that he wanted to be free like a bird (in your post), but you stalked him aginst his will A LOT. He is very annoyed, and he does not want to be friend of you at all. Clean and simple.
Why on earth do you want to be a friend who is avoing you?
Find someone else who will cherish you, and be happy. Cheers!

Leave him alone and find something to do in your idle times.

[Bubbly_Dreamer1]

If he blocked you from "BBM" when he was hanging with another girl (am I correct or did I read it wrong) that would have been the stopping point for me. I wouldn't of fixed it, talk to him about it. IF he was serious about you, he wouldn't of blocked you. And maybe he thought you didn't trust him to hang with other girls. But making a Facebook with falsde info, isn't a good thing. He isn't worth all that DRAMA, more people in this world. Trust me.

[Kitkat22]

If he blocked you from "BBM" when he was hanging with another girl (am i correct or did i read it wrong) that would of been the stopping point for me. i wouldnt of fixed it, talk to him about it. IF he was serious about you, he wouldnt of blocked you. And maybe he thought you didnt trust him to hang with other girls. but making a facebook with falsde info, isnt a good thing. He isnt worth all that DRAMA, more people in this world. trust me.

Read the post and listen to them. Stop wasting time and energy on him.

[Bubbly_Dreamer1]

Read the post and listen to them. Stop wasting time and energy on him.

I'm sorry. I believe I did. Thank you very much

[Kitkat22]

i'm sorry. I believe i did. Thank you very much

Talking to the original one you posted this for. When you answer the OP by using someone else's advice that is quote user. Anyway you gave some good advice!

[Alty]

I'm sorry. I believe i did. Thank you very much

Bubbly, Kit wasn't talking to you, she was talking to the OP (original poster). Read her post again, Kit was agreeing with your advice.

[Bubbly_Dreamer1]

Read the post and listen to them. Stop wasting time and energy on him.

Oh I'm sorry. My mistake. I thought you were telling me to read it and listen to them. My mistake I do apologize.

[Alty]

Oh im sorry. My mistake. I thought you were telling me to read it and listen to them. my mistake i do apologize.

No worries, it can take some time to get used to the format of this site and figure out how it works. :)

Welcome to AMHD. If you have any problems figuring things out, just ask, we're here to help. :)

[Bubbly_Dreamer1]

Hey people(: please check out my questions.

[Alty]

Hey people(: please check out my questions.

Can you post a link? Just go to your question, right click on your mouse, copy and paste here. Then we'll have a link to follow. :)

[Bubbly_Dreamer1]

My friend and I been friends since January(spp) and We rarely get in fights. We call each other bffs. And such, but when it comes to boys, she always comes to me for advice, but recently, she has been talking to my ex's step brother. And she is getting information on the boy she's been talking to (lets call him Joe and my ex Bill) so, she's been getting information from bill about joe. And JOE talks about me calling me ugly. Let me qoute exactly what joe said "she's ugly, she has an ugly face, pop tart crusty face, dirry hoe" so when I heard this which was this morning (3/23/10) I laughed, because the day I met Joe, I was eating a pop tart. And so I started thinking about what he called me, and it got too me, I am ugly. And what's messed up is how bill told my friend that joe said that. And all of bill's friend think I am a hoe, because I asked for his friends number, and he had his friend say he had a girlfriend, when he never did. And bill didn't want to sit with my friend today because iw as by her... I don't know. And she always ask me for help, but she'll probably go tell them. Help(:

(I don't think I did it right):)

[Alty]

My friend and i been friends since January(spp) and We rarely get in fights. We call each other bffs. and such, but when it comes to boys, she always comes to me for advice, but recently, she has been talking to my ex's step brother. and she is getting information on the boy she's been talking to (lets call him Joe and my ex Bill) so, shes been getting information from bill about joe. and JOE talks about me calling me ugly. Let me qoute exactly what joe said "she's ugly, she has an ugly face, pop tart crusty face, dirry hoe" so when i heard this which was this morning (3/23/10) i laughed, because the day i met Joe, i was eating a pop tart. and so i started thinking about what he called me, and it got too me, i am ugly. And whats messed up is how bill told my friend that joe said that. and all of bill's friend think i am a hoe, because i asked for his friends number, and he had his friend say he had a gf, when he never did. And bill didnt want to sit with my friend today because iw as by her......i dont know. and she always ask me for help, but she'll probably go tell them. help(:

(i dont think i did it right):)

No, you didn't do it right. ;) That's okay.

What you just did is post on someone else's thread, which isn't allowed and won't get you answers.

No worries, I'll go to your profile to find your thread. :)

[Bubbly_Dreamer1]

No, you didn't do it right. ;) That's okay.

What you just did is post on someone elses thread, which isn't allowed and won't get you answers.

No worries, I'll go to your profile to find your thread. :)

Ah, I'm so new. Thank you so much for all your help(: