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Wondergirl · Mar 12, 2010, 01:35 PM

I'd buy him a nice card -- one that says "Goodbye and Good Luck."

amicon · Mar 12, 2010, 01:47 PM

I wouldn't even bother buying him a card.
Assuming this is the guy from your other thread,wake up and smell the coffee,you can do much better than this immature brat.

artlady · Mar 12, 2010, 01:57 PM

While his attitude and sense of entitlement is lousy immature and selfish,you have to accept some of the responsibility because you feed into his bratty behavior by giving him what he wants.

This is not what real life is all about and he needs to stop being so superficial and you need to put yourself first.

You should not have to struggle to appease his desires.

Honor yourself and don't ever allow anyone to do less to you!

If I were to do anything,I would make a small donation in his name to a worthy charity,maybe then he will see that his petty greed is a very unattractive trait.

talaniman · Mar 12, 2010, 03:07 PM

Of course its the same guy, and as usual the hard working mod has merged her threads. Oh why can't they just post on the same thread about the same guy?

Kitkat22 · Mar 12, 2010, 03:11 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Of course its the same guy, and as usual the hard working mod has merged her threads. Oh why can't they just post on the same thread about the same guy?

I don't know what else to say. You slept with his twin brother. They fought and are no longer speaking. His mother is infuriated that you caused a split in her family.
They will never accept you and if they do think of what an uncomfortable situation you are putting them in.

Your parents don't know you're back together and neither does his. You say you were drinking and taking drugs when the infidelity happened? That isn't a very good excuse. You say you were broken up at the time. You also say you are going to the military? That will be the end of it. He'll move on, you'll move on. So why are you asking again for advice!

CarrotTalker · Mar 12, 2010, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

Of course its the same guy, and as usual the hard working mod has merged her threads. Oh why can't they just post on the same thread about the same guy?

Maybe by asking the same question over and over, we will give them the answer they want to hear. That way they can live in their happy fantasy land:D

Kitkat22 · Mar 12, 2010, 03:28 PM

Originally Posted by CarrotTalker

Maybe by asking the same question over and over, we will give them the answer they want to hear. That way they can live in their happy fantasy land:D

Wouldn't it be great if they took the advice sometimes?:D:D

vanheart · Mar 12, 2010, 11:12 PM

Holy crap.

Is this a movie?

I think I saw this one.

Kitkat22 · Mar 12, 2010, 11:24 PM

Originally Posted by vanheart

Holy crap.

Is this a movie?

I think I saw this one.

Sounds like one. True story!:rolleyes:

vanheart · Mar 12, 2010, 11:31 PM

Read "Twins"

Good lesson in coming in-between.

Kitkat22 · Mar 12, 2010, 11:37 PM

Originally Posted by vanheart

Read "Twins"

Good lesson in coming in-between.

I think I will!

vanheart · Mar 12, 2010, 11:43 PM

I read it when I was 17 or 18.

Hardcore. That book stuck in my mind.

I know quite a few twins.

Kitkat22 · Mar 12, 2010, 11:53 PM

Guess I won't read it. There is enough drama on here! I got to go to bed. Goodnight Van!

coruzzi2 · Mar 13, 2010, 12:54 AM

You can't have a relationship without trust.
Let him know that his issues and extremes like making you call on your house phone are really getting to you, and you need to breathe. He needs to realize he has no reason to be acting like that, or else he's going to loose you.
Talk to him and If he cares about you, he'll adjust to this.

Kitkat22 · Mar 13, 2010, 09:05 AM

Good luck!

lea_09 · Mar 20, 2010, 07:04 PM

I went to visit my boyfriend at his apartment for my spring break so we can bond (he lives 3 hours away from me because of college). I find myself spending more time alone at his apartment while he is at tennis and he won't come back to the apartment till 12 hours later. I hate to ask him when he is coming back all the time because I feel clingy, but I feel like I am missing out on him. I feel more alone than ever. I think it is not fair because he won't even take me out of dinner because of money issues and other things. But I feel like being at an apartment for 12 hours by myself for 3 consecutive days is a waste of my time. I get upset very easily and I feel like tennis matches should not take more than 4 hours. Oh and I don't have any friends here and my car is not here either. So I pretty much have to sit tight here in this 4 room apartment by myself and watch TV all day. I feel like he is going out with his friends and even hanging out with girls while I am here. Is there any advice to help me feel like I am not an idiot?

talaniman · Mar 20, 2010, 08:47 PM

The best advice I could give you is dump him, and go home, or where ever your car is.

As I remember that was the advice in your other posts. Making new posts about the same thing will not get different responses sorry.

Kitkat22 · Mar 20, 2010, 08:56 PM

Let the man go! You slept with his brother. Let him get that relationship with his brother back and get out of his life.

Nothing you do or say will take away the image of you having drunken sex with his twin brother.
Give the guy a break and move on!

vanheart · Mar 20, 2010, 09:00 PM

Maybe you have just stayed pals with his brother.

Good friends are better than bad boyfriends.

You have done this all by yourself. Bad move.

myagony1234 · Mar 21, 2010, 06:07 AM

What is the best thing to do to gain trust?
It is not repairable at ths point, and please break up ASAP.

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I just read all threads merged, and just amazed how a girl with brain could screw up a family and herself this much, and still does not know the real issue.

HER…
She is claiming she is smart enough to be a doctor (in taking exam only?), but she is really low and has no moral. Sorry for being so rude, but I wonder what kind of doctor she will make. I'm trying to factor in her age, hormonal level, and drinking, boy friend' absence, but it is beyond imagination and not repairable. You are way too much, girl!

The real issue is, it seems she is thinking she is still OK, and sleeping with boy friend's twin brother is not a big deal and forgivable (big non sense). She thinks the relationship will still go on (non sense), she wants boy friend's full attention (in this circumstance? Non sense), and also she wants her freedom to go to party and complaining her boy friend's restriction. This girl's head is totally messed up, and does not know what is wrong in her.
Shame on you.
Please break up with your boy friend ASAP for giving him a big favor, and go to every single party you want to go please.

HIM…
She is claiming her boy friend is great (non sense), but this guy is screwed up big time as well. He has no judgment to cut off the sleazy girl who slept with his own twin brother. Instead of getting rid of her, he is paranoid and asked her to call him to report where she is about. (Pathetic) He slept with other girls (not smart, but understandable in the circumstance), but took back her as girlfriend again and continued the drama (pathatic). He gave her birthday gift list which will cost hundreds of dollars AFTER she cheated on him with his twin brother (speechless). He needs to wake up, walk away from this girl permanently, and grow up as a man.

As Tal said, joining in military will be the best way to straighten up her malfunctioning life. We are not perfect, we all make mistakes on and off, bu it is way too much. I hope it helps you to improve your life. God Bless you.