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Feb 9, 2010, 07:32 AM
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 Originally Posted by aoifee88
aaaaaaaah feel like im going to go mad today. feel like im never going to find someone again
Sometimes we get those feelings after a break up. It's just part of the painfull process on the read to recovery. With time, when you start to regain your confidence, heal from the wounds and meet new people, you will have renewed hope.
6+ billion people in the world, I'm sure there's someone else out there for you. But be patient with yourself while you're healing. No need to rush into anything anyway.
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Feb 9, 2010, 07:35 AM
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You are strong.
Believe that because it's true.
Every relationship is a learning experience. Some lessons are tougher than others, but we all grow as human beings having gone through various hardships.
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Feb 9, 2010, 03:32 PM
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 Originally Posted by I wish
Sometimes we get those feelings after a break up. It's just part of the painfull process on the read to recovery. With time, when you start to regain your confidence, heal from the wounds and meet new people, you will have renewed hope.
6+ billion people in the world, I'm sure there's someone else out there for you. But be patient with yourself while you're healing. No need to rush into anything anyway.
Yes I would love to feel better quicker
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Feb 9, 2010, 03:55 PM
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 Originally Posted by aoifee88
yes i would love to feel better quicker
Time and patience is the key. Time heals all wounds.
Check out the NC related threads in my signature. Though NC does not give instant results, it does help ease the pain and avoids prolonging the suffering.
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Feb 9, 2010, 04:12 PM
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 Originally Posted by I wish
Time and patience is the key. Time heals all wounds.
Check out the NC related threads in my signature. Though NC does not give instant results, it does help ease the pain and avoids prolonging the suffering.
The baby's 1year anniversary is on Sunday valentines day shouldi still stick to NC
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Feb 9, 2010, 05:59 PM
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Absolutely.
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Feb 9, 2010, 06:06 PM
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Thanks to everyone for the advice. I needed to hear this. Only one more thing what do I do on the offchance he decides to contact me? He has my house phone number
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Feb 9, 2010, 06:08 PM
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Ignore it!
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Feb 9, 2010, 06:11 PM
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Going to be so hard. I know I am strong enough to not contact him myself but if he tries to contact me I don't know if I can ignore it or not aaaaaaah
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Feb 9, 2010, 10:12 PM
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You can do it.
You have the strength.
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Feb 10, 2010, 09:32 AM
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 Originally Posted by aoifee88
going to be so hard. i know i am strong enough to not contact him myself but if he tries to contact me i dont know if i can ignore it or not aaaaaaah
Your going to find out maybe. Do your best if it does happen.
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Feb 10, 2010, 01:39 PM
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Feel like I'm ready to crack today been crying most of the day. Picked out a plaque for the baby's grave today for her anniversary and all I wanted was him there to do it with me
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Feb 10, 2010, 02:07 PM
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It must have been a very sad day for you and all my sympathies to you.
I hope you have friends and family to talk to and help you through the day.
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Feb 10, 2010, 03:27 PM
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 Originally Posted by amicon
It must have been a very sad day for you and all my sympathies to you.
I hope you have friends and family to talk to and help you through the day.
I am sooooo close to texting him I don't think I can get through Sunday without him
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Feb 10, 2010, 04:08 PM
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No comment! You already know what the right thing for yourself is.
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Feb 10, 2010, 04:16 PM
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 Originally Posted by talaniman
No comment! You already know what the right thing for yourself is.
Yes I know I'm just having a lot of up and down moments
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Feb 10, 2010, 11:18 PM
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All these moments are normal,but that's where you go distract yourself and stay no contact.
Take care.
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