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    Sep 13, 2009, 06:35 AM
    You're welcome!and I agree with the heart and head statement-it ll take some time but eventually they will be in sync.its a journey getting there but somewhere along the line you ll meet yourself and start to care for you and your needs in life.
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    Sep 13, 2009, 06:42 AM

    Well luckily this whole thing only made me want to look better... I was on my way to that place anyway... he thought I was too pretty for him... too smart for him... been to man places done too many things... too independent and at 5'6" too tall... and at 55 too old... yet he looks 65... just ego issues... I tried being less, dumbed myself up.. tried being plain and ugly... in the end it is not me... it is him.. knowing that does not help at this point... a smart woman once said the best revenge is to be happy...
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    Sep 13, 2009, 06:50 AM
    Strange- he sounds similar to the guy I left a couple of months ago!:-(how old s your ex?the best revenge if that's what you need apart from being happy,would be to have no contact with him whatsoever.He lost you-so he is the loser.
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    Sep 13, 2009, 07:12 AM

    He is 54... a legend in his own mind... real selfesteem issues... I am working hard at not saying a word to him.. I can not fix him...
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    Sep 13, 2009, 07:19 AM
    No we can only fix ourselves-noone else.and we can't change ourselves to fit in with somebody else's idea of how we should be.with experience comes selfawareness-and we begin to realise what we want from a relationship.we all deserve to allow ourselves to be happy.
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    Sep 13, 2009, 07:24 AM

    Very true... I tried for years to be who he wanted... and he did not return the favor... the south of the USA is strange many men still think they own women... southern women had told me this... did not believe it... I do now... I am from California.. now live in Ohio...
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    Sep 13, 2009, 07:32 AM
    It's a strange old world-some men in the UK think this as well-we have to be true to ourselves and if that's not good enough for the person we re with we should cut our losses even if it s painful.it helps to keep busy and be good to ourselves.
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    Sep 13, 2009, 08:13 AM

    I go on vacation to Cancun Mexico... the men I have met from the UK seem much better than american men...
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    Sep 13, 2009, 08:38 AM

    Most of them are ok-you just get the occasional oddball!:-)
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    #30

    Sep 13, 2009, 10:00 PM

    I guess that can said about all men...
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    Sep 13, 2009, 10:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ssgirl View Post
    I go on vacation to Cancun Mexico...the men I have met from the UK seem much better than american men...
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