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Myhearthasgone · Jul 15, 2009, 11:38 PM

So I came to ask a quick question really =]

I have had dates but I feel weird when I kiss and guys move their toungue and I do it too at the same time. I know people say that everybody has got their style to kiss but what do guys like?

And is it really weird if you two move your tongue together or is it just me thinking like that?

Clough · Jul 16, 2009, 12:27 AM

Hi, Myhearthasgone!

Yes, people do have different styles of kissing. Moving tongues together is normal, as far as I'm concerned.

To be really sure of what the person you're kissing likes, I would suggest communicating with them about that rather than guessing and asking people you don't know as to what the other person might like.

If you communicate with the other person concerning ways to do things, wants, needs and desires, it will be more likely that the two of you will develop a more meaningful relationship.

Hopefully, others will be along to address your question.

Thanks!

rosebud135 · Jul 16, 2009, 12:42 AM

I've made out with a few guys and they were all different. Look up on Google "how to kiss" and it will show you. :)
Just go with the flow of the other person. If you try to do something completely different then what he's doing he's going to think there's something wrong with you. Unless you make it so your in control so he follows you.
:)
Good luck

Clough · Jul 16, 2009, 12:46 AM

Hi, rosebud135!

I particularly like what you say about "just go with the flow of the other person". But, sometimes it might be hard to know what the flow might be. Don't you think so?

Thanks!

rosebud135 · Jul 16, 2009, 12:49 AM

Well yea. Not to be mean to certain people but I madeout with this one guy and for a minute I thought he was trying to eat my face. Haha. Well if your comfortable enough with him tell him what you want and what you like. He might rethink how he does things.(:

Clough · Jul 16, 2009, 01:09 AM

Originally Posted by rosebud135

well yea. not to be mean to certain ppl but i madeout with this one guy and for a minute i thought he was trying to eat my face. haha. well if your comfortable enough with him tell him wat you want and wat you like. he might rethink how he does things.(:

Yes, the verbal communication is most important!

I hope that your face is okay! :D

rosebud135 · Jul 16, 2009, 01:16 AM

Originally Posted by Clough

Yes, the verbal communication is most important!

I hope that your face is okay! :D

Hahaha I think it is. That made my night. (:

Clough · Jul 16, 2009, 01:25 AM

Some people, when they kiss, can be like a vacuum cleaner! :eek:

When they start to "suck it all up", then it's best to take some evasive and proactive action! :)

HelpinHere · Jul 16, 2009, 02:26 AM

Originally Posted by rosebud135

just go with the flow of the other person....

Sorry, rb, but I'm going to have to disagree with you.
Only dead fish go with the flow.

Myhearthasgone posted because she was going with what her boys have been kissing her, and she didn't like it.

I suggest just doing what comes naturally to you. If you don't like the feel of something, don't do it. A good boyfriend will pick up on your hints. If you do like it, try to see if he likes it too. (As far as kissing is concerned)

Don't be afraid to talk to him about it, though. Coming from a teenage guy, I'll be willing to say that I'm worried that I may be an incompitent (sp?) kisser. I would, personally, like my girl to tell me what she likes and not, so I can make myself more confident, and make her enjoy me more.

ZoeMarie · Jul 16, 2009, 02:28 AM

Originally Posted by rosebud135

well yea. not to be mean to certain ppl but i madeout with this one guy and for a minute i thought he was trying to eat my face. haha. well if your comfortable enough with him tell him wat you want and wat you like. he might rethink how he does things.(:

Sounds like THAT guy should be asking this question. LOL.

I say do what feels natural for you.