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May 26, 2009, 02:42 PM
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She said she needs time to think or whatever, but how do I respond to get her back
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May 26, 2009, 02:45 PM
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 Originally Posted by Steve1010
she said she needs time to think or whatever, but how do i respond to get her back
I have no clue. You didn't follow the program. You're on your own now. She is still in control and manipulating the h--- out of you.
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May 26, 2009, 02:46 PM
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I'm sorry I didn't, I did that thing that one guy said if she's nice talk to her... is there any help you can give me? Please? Is there any other techniuqes?
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May 26, 2009, 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
im sorry i didnt, i did that thing that one guy said if shes nice talk to her... is there any help u can give me? please? is there any other techniuqes?
If she's nice AFTER 9 P.M.
The only thing you can do is start over with absolutely NO CONTACT.
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May 26, 2009, 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
im sorry i didnt, i did that thing that one guy said if shes nice talk to her... is there any help u can give me? please? is there any other techniuqes?
But she wasn't nice and you continued to argue with her.
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Junior Member
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May 26, 2009, 02:49 PM
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What u mean if she's nice after nine?
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May 26, 2009, 02:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
what u mean if shes nice after nine?
You were not to communicate with her until after 9 tonight. THEN, if she would be nice, you could text, etc. If she wasn't nice, then Goodbye.
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Junior Member
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May 26, 2009, 03:03 PM
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Ahh
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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May 26, 2009, 03:08 PM
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You can tell her, "I want an exclusive relationship with you. If you are not willing to be faithful to me, I'm not interested."
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Expert
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May 26, 2009, 03:23 PM
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You can tell her, "I want an exclusive relationship with you. If you are not willing to be faithful to me, I'm not interested."
Then you disappear from her life.
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Junior Member
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May 26, 2009, 03:42 PM
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What if she doesn't see other people. I think she just said that to make me mad. And she just wants some time to think? Do I put up with it?
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Jobs & Parenting Expert
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May 26, 2009, 03:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
what if she doesnt see other people. i think she just said that to make me mad. and she just wants some time to think? do i put up with it?
Put up with what? She gives you loyalty and faithfulness, or you're gone from her life.
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May 26, 2009, 03:51 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
what if she doesnt see other people. i think she just said that to make me mad. and she just wants some time to think? do i put up with it?
Let's see... she's already slept with one other guy, or was it two? Because she was drunk? She's got you right back where she wants you. She's manipulating the ens out of you. What I heard in her twisted commentary was that she still wants to be able to sleep with you, when she pleases... but she's wide open to other guys, too. She might not be seriously looking to sleep with other guys, but she is clearly controlling you, and telling you (in so many words) that she is the one who matters here. Not you. Please take Wondergirl's advice and lay off the texting and calls.
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May 26, 2009, 03:53 PM
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Wow. I tried to say she was manipulating the "dic*kens" out of him... LOL! I knew h*ll wouldn't be passed, but I never suspected that "dic*kens" would be censored!
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Junior Member
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May 26, 2009, 03:58 PM
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You we just started talking about sex, and she flipped when I started too. She's like if you really love me you wouldn't of done that and hasn't responded in an hour
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May 26, 2009, 03:59 PM
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After we were done talking about it with each other, then she was like "yah ur all about sex, if you really cared about me you wouldnt of done that" because she was like ooo babe lets talk dirty, so I did.. then she said that and hasn't responded
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May 26, 2009, 03:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve1010
ya we just started talking about sex, and she flipped when i started too. shes like if u really love me u wouldnt of done that and hasnt responded in an hour
"If you really love me u wouldnt of done" WHAT??
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Ultra Member
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May 26, 2009, 04:01 PM
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Listen how much longer are you going put yourself through this? Most likely she is laughing at you because she knows she have a puppy in you.
Let her go and move on!
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May 26, 2009, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Wondergirl
"If you really love me u wouldnt of done" WHAT?????
I wouldn't of talked dirty to her, she asked me too. Then I did. And when were done she said that
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Junior Member
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May 26, 2009, 04:03 PM
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Originally Posted by liz28
Listen how much longer are you going put yourself through this? Most likely she is laughing at you because she knows she have a puppy in you.
Let her go and move on!
She was like your my baby you know that?
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