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nena14 · Apr 25, 2009, 07:14 AM

I'm really stupid I don't know what I was thinking,I lost my boyfriend 4 months ago :( but we still see and sometimes we have sex well when we had sex he left,so after 1 hour I saw the condom that we were using and the sperm was there so I open the condom again and I put it inside my vagina:(
So am I pregnant?:confused:

N0help4u · Apr 25, 2009, 07:20 AM

There is no way to tell because even if you didn't ever use a condom it can take years of trying to get pregnant.
I heard of a nurse saving a condom and later using it to get pregnant but I don't know if there are things you have to do like keeping it at a certain temperature.

Really you should not be *tampering* with things like this. You should find somebody that WANTS a baby AND loves you not somebody that you are no longer in a relationship with and this is deceptive and can cause problems in his life as well as your own like child support and custody battles, etc...

JoeCanada76 · Apr 25, 2009, 07:30 AM

WOW, I can not believe this.

Your messing with peoples lives.

Could you get pregnant it is always possible.

pathisfer · Apr 25, 2009, 08:00 AM

Yes, you could get pregnant from that but the bigger issue is your state of mind. Your boyfriend thought he had protected sex with you and this is no different than if someone were to 'steal' your eggs without your permission and create a baby. I'm sure you'd feel very violated.
I suggest you stop seeing this guy because it's clear you can't handle it! If this situation is creating such drastic behaviors, it's not healthy for you to be in. He wore protection for a reason, he has no desire to create a baby with you. Getting pregnant will do the opposite of what you want from him- he will probably despise you and want nothing to do with you and that's not a good situation to bring a child into.
You haven't had a chance to get over him because you're still having sex with him and you really need a clean break.

adam_89 · Apr 25, 2009, 08:18 AM

Wow is right, I can't believe someone would try and do that to someone else. Very scary thought,

It is possible that you could be pregnant though.

this8384 · Apr 25, 2009, 08:26 AM

The only way you would actually do something so foolish is if you were TRYING to get pregnant. This is not going to bring your boyfriend back to you nor will it make either of you happy.

You need to stop seeing him immediately. This isn't a healthy relationship in any form or fashion.

shazamataz · Apr 25, 2009, 09:34 AM

Are you trying to get him back?

Because this isn't the way to go about it.

Think of the poor child that is going to be brought up in a loveless relationship or be in a broken home...

liz28 · Apr 26, 2009, 03:25 PM

The OP is only 15 and the guy she is talking about is 18. I can't believe you would do something like this but it doesn't surprise me.

I hope your not and really hope you grow up. Having a baby won't keep a guy because he can always leave while you get stuck with raising a child at 15.

I think your looking for love in all the wrong places and you might need counseling. You basically had only a sexual relationship with this guy and I would love to know where are your parents?

artlady · Apr 26, 2009, 04:00 PM

What gives you the right to do such a thing?You are old enough to know better.

If you have to go to such desperate measures to keep a guy,you are in need of help.This is simply not a normal thing to do.

Hopefully he used a condom with a spermicide.Chances are you are not pregnant as sperm does not last for more than an hour outside the body.

If by any chance you did find yourself pregnant ,how do you intend to care for a child at the age of 15?

You have not thought that far.Your thinking is only to trap this boy and make his life miserable.Shame on you!

Obviously,your ex does not want children and for that matter it would seem he only wants you for one thing.If you were pregnant chances are he would never be there for you.He is gone and you need to face the reality of your situation.

You need to honor yourself and never allow anyone to use you.

I think you would benefit by talking to a counselor at school and getting some therapy.

liz28 · Apr 26, 2009, 04:12 PM

Btw, the age of consent in Mexico is 16 so he can have a lot of legal problems. I don't know if he knew your age or if you lied but you really need guidance.

You should go to Tara Banks website and watch her show on teen pregnancy and the challenges the teen mothers faced. Having a baby isn't a game and a child shouldn't be brought in the world because of it.

Having a baby is expensive. I have 2 so I know. Babies are cute to look at but again expensive.

I really hope you get counseling asap.

artlady · Apr 26, 2009, 04:36 PM

Originally Posted by liz28

Btw, the age of consent in Mexico is 16 so he can have alot of legal problems. I don't know if he knew your age or if you lied but you really need guidance.

You should go to Tara Banks website and watch her show on teen pregnacy and the challenges the teen mothers faced. Having a baby isn't a game and a child shouldn't be brought in the world because of it.

Having a baby is expensive. I have 2 so I know. Babies are cute to look at but again expensive.

I really hope you get counseling asap.

Had to spread the rep Liz but I totally agree.If she is willing to go to such desperate measures to keep a boyfriend,there is something very wrong and she needs some counseling.