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BlackVY · Dec 22, 2008, 07:23 PM

Originally Posted by hurtnconfused

Yeah, actually I've decided this is my last attempt lol! I don't want to come across as a pest and I think he's very aware that I do want to see him. I'll just wait for him to contact me from now on if he feels like it. Thanks again, BlackVY, you're da bomb! :)

No worries.. yeah.. just relax and enjoy yourself and see how it goes.. this guy is not your whole world, so live your life and just go with the flow.. :)

plonak · Dec 24, 2008, 11:59 AM

Any updates?

hurtnconfused · Dec 26, 2008, 12:40 AM

Well, since the last text I sent him on Monday, asking him if he would like to get together for sushi because I was going to be in town... nothing has happened. I never did get a reply from him. So I guess he's long gone already. I honestly don't know what I did, considering after our last date, he did sent several very nice texts. He wouldn't have taken the time that night to send those if he had a crappy time right? He would've just left the date and disappeared completely- right away, and he didn't exactly do that. Oh well... :( That's my update guys. Thank you for all your help and advice in this. Happy holidays!!

plonak · Dec 27, 2008, 12:41 PM

He seems like a serious loser.. just playing with your emotions.. I wouldn't be surprised if in a week or so he will text you and just pretend nothing has happened.. he definitely seems like the kind of guy

Hopefully you won't text him back when he does that.. all right.. thanks for the update

talaniman · Dec 27, 2008, 02:07 PM

You really do have to learn to let a guy breathe, and be patient, and stop trying to force things into what you want, as the dude said he would be busy for the holidays, so what's your all fired hurry?

You do have other avenues of fun, and people, in your life don't you?

hurtnconfused · Dec 28, 2008, 09:28 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

You really do have to learn to let a guy breathe, and be patient, and stop trying to force things into what you want, as the dude said he would be busy for the holidays, so whats your all fired hurry?

You do have other avenues of fun, and people, in your life don't you??

I do, and I've let it go... and he actually did end up texting me the day after Christmas, really late at night so I know what he was after. I didn't reply so that's it with him. Thanks for the advice everyone! :)