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jynx3943 · Nov 22, 2008, 01:57 PM

There are plenty of 20year old girls that are also involutarily celebate... go for one of them... although they are few and far betewwn, somehow I think that you hang out at the same place as some of these chicks and you just don't know it... find love elsewhere. Please do not ruin this 11year old girl, let her grow into herself first... then when she's like 18ish, go for it...

xxariesxx · Nov 22, 2008, 02:12 PM

I disagree with the above poster... don't encourage anyone to wait 7 YEARS to "go for it." The thing here is that he has to stay away from her now, period, not just wait around her, because it would definitely end up causing all kinds of issues.
Don't encourage anyone to wait on an 11 year old.

Vix89 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:17 PM

I agree with xxairesxx

Leave this little girl alone to grow up, go through crushes, then find someone her own age

And you concentrate on making new friends (cz god only knows why you're mating round with an 11 yr old) and meet girls through them

stanj028 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:19 PM

Dude, I think you should do what your heart tells you to, many girls like much older men due to hormones, if you pursue it, the best thimg you could do is meet the parents, explain to them the situation, good luck mate, standen

Vix89 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:22 PM

If I was the mum of that 11 year old girl I would not be happy if a 20 yr old man came to me saying he had feelings for my daughter.. I would do more than chop his off!

Completely wrong

Go straight to jail, do not pass go, do not collect 200 pounds!

southerngalps · Nov 22, 2008, 02:23 PM

Originally Posted by stanj028

dude, i think you should do what your heart tells you to, many girls like much older men due to hormones, if you pursue it, the best thimg you could do is meet the parents, explain to them the situation, gud luck mate, standen

You really shouldn't advise someone to break the law.

He could be imprisoned for this.

Do you suggest this from experience?

xxariesxx · Nov 22, 2008, 02:29 PM

Originally Posted by stanj028

dude, i think you should do what your heart tells you to, many girls like much older men due to hormones, if you pursue it, the best thimg you could do is meet the parents, explain to them the situation, gud luck mate, standen

There's a fine line between following your heart and doing what's right.

And this isn't right.
You might have feelings for someone, but that doesn't mean you're owed anything to be with them. This girl isn't 17 or 16 (which would still be pushing it, and illegal), she's 11.

"Due to hormones"... HAHA. An 11 year old? She probably hasn't even hit puberty yet.

liz28 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:33 PM

A 11 year old is in 6 grade. Around that age she may have a crush on many guys.

You are an Adult, and should know right from wrong. All because she likes you doesn't mean you should be considering having her as a girldfriend or acting on it. She is in a total different stage from you.

Unless you want to end up in jail, leave her alone and seek help. What you going do if a 9 year old like you? Were are your morals and common sense? If her age can't stop you then maybe you should go to her parents and see what they say. Because if she was my daughter you would get your butt kick before I call the cops.

starbuck8 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:34 PM

Originally Posted by stanj028

dude, i think you should do what your heart tells you to, many girls like much older men due to hormones, if you pursue it, the best thimg you could do is meet the parents, explain to them the situation, gud luck mate, standen

This girl is a CHILD! He is a MAN! This is ILLEGAL! Get the picture? It has nothing to do with raging hormones! It's got to do with morality, not to mention he could RUIN the girls life and his life! :rolleyes:

stevetcg · Nov 22, 2008, 02:35 PM

Originally Posted by stanj028

dude, i think you should do what your heart tells you to, many girls like much older men due to hormones, if you pursue it, the best thimg you could do is meet the parents, explain to them the situation, gud luck mate, standen

Worst advice ever. This will get him 20-life in most every state in the US.

Man - if you are starving for attention this badly, go on craigslist and find yourself a nice hooker. Sure, still against the law but not one most people care about.

starbuck8 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:41 PM

I would also like to add that indeed the OP is a pedophile! He is a man, she is a little girl. If he even has feelings like this for a child, this is the beginning of pedophilia. Get help before you are sitting in a prison cell, and trust me, people that are in prison for a crime like that are not looked well upon in prison! STAY AWAY FROM THIS CHILD!

southerngalps · Nov 22, 2008, 02:45 PM

Originally Posted by Vix89

go straight to jail, do not pass go, do not collect 200 pounds!

Haha... did you play monopoly today are you came up with that off the top of your head?

CLEVER!

Vix89 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:47 PM

Originally Posted by southerngalps

haha...did you play monopoly today are you came up with that off the top of your head??

CLEVER!

Not played it in a while... but I'm in the mood for it now hehe

southerngalps · Nov 22, 2008, 02:49 PM

Always up for monopoly... although I get so frustrated cause I never win...

It's like playing risk... I never win that either!

Oops.. don't want to get away from topic :)

Vix89 · Nov 22, 2008, 02:51 PM

Originally Posted by southerngalps

always up for monopoly...although i get so frustrated cause i never win...

it's like playing risk...i never win that either!

oops..don't want to get away from topic :)

Well no we don't lol... erm.. erm.. erm.. the OP is like the dude from monopoly with the monacle lusting after a teen.. ick and wrong

aliciaa- · Nov 22, 2008, 05:51 PM

Don't pursue it.
You'll find someone, people say if you love someone just go for it and don't let anyone stop you but to be honest, she doesn't know what love is, she doesn't know anything! She's not even a teenager yet.

Alty · Nov 22, 2008, 07:21 PM

She's a child, she should be playing with dolls, having tea parties, not dating a man!

Yes, you are right, I do think you're a pedophile. Stay away from this child before you ruin her life and yours.

What's this world coming to? Really people, I'm buying that cabin in the woods before some man decides to date my 6 year old daughter. Grrrrr! :(

Jlynn88 · Nov 23, 2008, 12:32 AM

You need help, its gross to even think of a child in that way. She is way to young to know what she wants.. You would be considered a pervert in my mind

Sronyv · Nov 23, 2008, 02:26 PM

Don't do it. Meet other,age appropriate, ladies. Get out of you shell. Start socializing. What ever you do, do not get into a relationship with the 11 year old! Be yourself and maybe you will find a girl... that is like you. So, get out and search! Don't be a creep... though!

Sronyv · Nov 23, 2008, 04:58 PM

Do not start a relationship with that girl. She is way too young. You need to find an age appropriate lady. Get out of your shell. Stop being so shy. Go places... express yourself... and maybe you'll meet a girl there... with the same interest. Good luck. What ever you do... DON'T start a relationship with the 11 aged girl.