[AWess]

Thanks AWess, and I know the perfect guy to bring there. Haha and what do you mean by concealing it?

Great! Then, it's going to be just fine. :)

[BlessdWitTalenT]

That jealousy of yours will cause your girlfriend to sprint towards the exit.

If that would have happened it would have happened a year ago. Were both jealous freaks

[BlessdWitTalenT]

The more you seem jealous and upset about this situation, the more she'll be inclined to leave you for this guy.

She's with YOU because she likes you. If you act nonchalant and cool about this, then you'll have become the bigger man and she may even be more attracted to you as you seem so confident in yourself about the relationship.

Be that whiny needy and jealous guy, and it shows off your bad side. Support her, go to the play, and make a joke or two (keep this at a minimum!) about it, then move on.

I don't think this is true at all. If you seem so cool about it and act likes it nothing she'll think its OK for her to do those types of things and maybe she'll start hanging out with guys and stuff and something could happen. You got to see both sides of the page

[AWess]

i dont think this is true at all. if you seem so cool about it and act likes it nothing she'll think its ok for her to do those types of things and maybe she'll start hanging out with guys and stuff and something could happen. you gotta see both sides of the page

No, she won't think it's OK for her to do "those types of things". Everyone knows "those types of things" are never OK.

[411Help]

No, she will look at you as a mature person and will want to be with you more.

[NItEMArE129]

Doesn't it really depend on the girl?

[E21]

I'm sure she doesn't want to kiss this guy. I don't think you have anything to worry about, it's only a play after all, it's not like she's cheating on you. But, you said she is "constantly flirting with him as though in a relationship"... That, I would be concerned about. I can see where the jealousy could come in if she is flirting with this guy outside of the play. I would try talking to her about the flirting issue, but don't bring up the kiss because it's irrelevant since she's only acting.

[AWess]

Doesn't it really depend on the girl?

It sure does depend, but I think any mature girl would understand that her boyfriend might get jealous. Yet, the better the boyfriend manages to deal with it and being cool about it, the more pleased she'll be with being with having him as boyfriend. (This is how I see it, but I've never cheated and I would never even think of doing so. Really!)

[NItEMArE129]

E21, I'm sorry, but I meant that the CHARACTER in the play is flirty a lot. So it's not her, it's in the play haha.

[E21]

Oooh, OK :) Well then, you have nothing to worry about! Just remind yourself that she's only acting, and the kiss will be over with quickly.

[Rainbow0077]

Talk to her about it and see. If she's that into the play then she'd care less about him and just wants to do the play for what it is. When you see her on that stage, just remember, she's not the same person she really is, she's someone else. Just looks like&sounds like her.

[NItEMArE129]

I have another question too. The play airs twice, and she has to kiss him both tims. Should I just go to one? Or would it be better to go to both?

[E21]

I'd say only go to one. Go to the first showing, then if you think it's going to drive you crazy not being there when she has to do the kiss the second time, you can go to the next show too. I think you'll find that you're relieved after you actually see it. You'll be wondering why you were even concerned in the first place.

[NItEMArE129]

Haha Idk about that... I'm the overprotective, paranoid, and jealous kind of guy (though I try not to overdo it). Fortunately she thinks its cute. =]

[E21]

Trust me, I know how that goes too, I'm a pretty jealous person when it comes to certain things as well. It's must just be in our nature. She thinks it's cute now, that's good, just don't become too overprotective, and everything will be good :)

[Kati-Katt]

Maybe she does want to kiss him, but that's only a possibility. If she really likes you then you got to back down on the paranoria. And yes it is completely normal to feel jelous towards it I mean for f*** sakes she's your girlfriend, but think of it as only a stage kiss and means nothing at all whatsoever.

[AWess]

I have another question too. The play airs twice, and she has to kiss him both tims. Should I just go to one? Or would it be better to go to both?

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[NItEMArE129]

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Ok, well my girlfriend of more than 5 months is most likely moving to the other coast. It all depends on what happens to her father's job, and neither option is very optimistic. Either he gets a promotion and they move, or he gets fired. I honestly don't know how to deal with this. I can't stand the thought of breaking up, but I also know that most, if not all, long-distance relationships don't work out. At the very least, she would be there for 3 years before we could be close to each other. So I want to know how I should deal with this problem and if anybody who has been in this situation before knows about anything I can do to make it more bearable.

[talaniman]

If you're the only one doing the pushing, it's a waste of time.

[talaniman]

You can let her go, and live your own life, or be pen pals for a while, and see what happens. What does she want to do??