[cole2]

I asked this guy if he still had feelings for me.
He said I have some feelings, yes.
What exactly does it mean?
Does it mean he still feels strongly about me.
Or what?
He said we will talk about everything when I get back from my trip. Which is in one week.

I asked my ex if he still had feelings for me.
He said I have some feelings, yes.
What exactly does it mean?
Does it mean he still feels strongly about me.
Or what?
He said we will talk about everything when I get back from my trip. Which is in one week.

[belmondo]

This could mean a number of things.

It could mean he still has sexual feelings towards you.

He still loves you and wants to get back with you

He has feelings for you as a friend, special friend

The list goes on!

The only way you are going to find out if he has feelings of a relationship is to ask him more directly or maybe wait until you see him again after your trip.

Try and enjoy your trip, do not consume this all the time or you will have a misrable time.

What will be will be, by you worrying will not change the outcome.

Just use this week to really fiqure out what you want and maybe also think about the issues that brought you to be exes in the first place, will this happen again??

You have to think will this realtionship/friendship benefit my life. Its easy to get caught up in lust and forget your healthy heart and mind.

Please get in touch if you need anymore advice. Keep smiling.

[cole2]

We have never been friends. And I know for a fact that he doesn't stay in contact with exs.
And he wasn't just after sex. He was really sincere. And I think he freaked out because he is a blokey bloke. And I heard from a source that he never acted the way he did around me, around any other girl he has been with. So that's got to mean something right

[belmondo]

Yeah sounds very positive:) let me know what happens, but do not get down if it does not go to plan, it will all work out the best for you. Just be honest with him and talk from the heart.:p

[cole2]

Oh trust me I have!
But he is a guy, bad with talking about serious crap.
Haha

[belmondo]

Maybe go out for a meal with good food and wine, that usually draws out emotion! :p

[cole2]

I did the whole cocktail extravaganza haha
Didn't help
I will just relax and see what happens

[ylaira]

When a man said HE SAID HE LIKES You and act like HE LIKES YOU, then there's should be no confusion there. If a man said I JUST LIKE YOU AS a FRIEND but calls you every night, always present wherever you are and teases a lot, then BUY THE ACTION.

[JBeaucaire]

When a man said HE SAID HE LIKES You and act like HE LIKES YOU, then there's should be no confusion there. If a man said I JUST LIKE YOU AS a FRIEND but calls you everynight, always present wherever you are and teases a lot, then BUY THE ACTION.

Hehe, that's a philosophy I can stand behind... (wink-wink)

[jaime90]

To me, men aren't hard to understand. If he says "I still have some feelings for you," That probably means that he still has some feelings for you. The only thing left to know is what those feelings are.