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Homegirl 50 · Sep 26, 2008, 08:31 PM

I thought you were probably 15 or so.
Look you guys go from one person to the next, then back to the last person in no time.
I suggest you talk to other girls but just be friends for a while. Stop hopping from one person to the next while you're still hurting or pinning for the last one.
Learn how to be friends. Learn about yourself.
None of you know about yourselves because you're too busy trying to hook up with the next person. And at what, 14-15 years old, you're in my opinion too young to be dating anyway.

jj890 · Sep 26, 2008, 08:33 PM

Well Im NCing both of them now. So I guess it doesn't matter anymore right?

Homegirl 50 · Sep 26, 2008, 08:40 PM

No, it does not matter unless you jump right into another relationship.

jj890 · Sep 27, 2008, 08:38 AM

All right..

Ks secretos · Sep 27, 2008, 06:15 PM

Relationships like these suck! And life sucks right now but learn from this, don't give your heart to quickly... esp. to someone with butter fingers. Go out, try and find a hobby, DO SOMETHING to try and get your mind off her. When I broke up with my X of almost 4 years I felt completely CRUSHED, but I had to move on... The worst is losing your lover and your friend all at once, esp when they no longer care about you or your feelings but dude you'll make it!! (PS: Girls like your X saw you as a amazing person and trew the line "Never leave me" so that you can always be their rebound) Don't FALL 4 IT, you will heal... you'll be fine

Homegirl 50 · Sep 27, 2008, 07:36 PM

I don't think she was using you. She told you she just wanted to be friends. So you be friends with her or you don't. The choice is yours.
When did you start talking to her again? How much time has all of this happened in?

jj890 · Sep 28, 2008, 09:44 AM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

When did you start talking to her again? How much time has all of this happened in?

Hmm.. Couple Months Ago.. But we rarely talked, and I don't know how much time.

Homegirl 50 · Sep 28, 2008, 06:17 PM

You guys just be friends, if not, leave it alone. You too are young, there will be plenty others in your life and her's too.
Don't tie yourself down to one person this young. This is a time for growing and learning, not getting tangled up in relationships.
I wish you well.

jj890 · Sep 28, 2008, 06:51 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You guys just be friends, if not, leave it alone. You too are young, there will be plenty others in your life and her's too.
Don't tie yourself down to one person this young. This is a time for growing and learning, not getting tangled up in relationships.
I wish you well.

Thanks but, we are not talking anymore.. NCing I guess.