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    godshed120 Posts: 8, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 18, 2007, 04:39 PM
    x-gf is dating a married couple
    Ok so my girlfriend and I broke up about five days ago. Last night I was hangen out with my friend Thomas and his wife. My x was there and Thomas and her were way cuddly. Their legs were tangled together and he was all rubbing her thigh. Thomas's wife wasn't bothered at all. So then they all start talking about getting my x's vagina peirced somewhere and he all know where her g-spot is. This doesn't bother me at first because her and I were over. But then I hear from my cousin that they've been doing this kind of thing with each other for a while now. I really don't know what to do or where to go from here.
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    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
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    #2

    Dec 18, 2007, 04:47 PM
    I'll tell you where to go from here. Go as far away from that girl as possible, unless you're into the threesome stuff. Sounds like your girl had not been your girl for a while.
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    Dec 18, 2007, 05:01 PM
    People push the sexual envelope because, quite absurdly, they obtain little satisfaction from sex. Little satisfaction, little real pleasure physically and emotionally... the wilder the scenarios become, the more alcohol and drugs needed to fuel the activities.
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    Dec 18, 2007, 05:03 PM
    Firstly, The G-spot cannot be pierced-did they mean clitoris? Soundss like they were "winding" you up. These people are nutbags. My advice is to stay clear of bad news/poisonous people.
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    #5

    Dec 19, 2007, 07:51 PM
    Leave her and her freaky friends alone. Obviously you didn't know that side of her, but its her life, stay out of it.
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    Dec 20, 2007, 08:58 AM
    A) She ain't your girlfriend any more.
    B) You sound a little uneducated in the sexual field. That may be why she left.
    C) You sound uncomfortable so don't go there.
    D) It sounds like you are unable to talk openly with her about what is going on. If you still can't talk openly with her, even after having a relationship, then I suspect that relationship would not have worked out.

    If you want to know, try talking to her calmly on neutral ground. We don't know what's up with that, but she does, so if you want to know just ask her.
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    Dec 21, 2007, 01:43 PM
    She's an ex... its her life to do with as she wants. Its not for you to approve or disapprove of.

    Hell I know one woman that went into prostitution by her choice. That was her right as well as it was my right to leave her out of my life.
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    Dec 21, 2007, 03:21 PM
    Well, either she's getting freaky with these people, or they were just acting to upset you. Either way, steer clear. She obviously has moved on, and if it upsets you, avoid her. Life is too short to be upset over what she is doing, although I wouldn't like seeing my ex being flirty with someone else either. It's one of those things you can't hate them for because it's over, but it's never a good feeling...

    But, seriously, I would steer clear if you're not into that sort of thing. Definitely don't sleep with her if she comes on to you, if you know she's been having multiple partners. Sorry you had to see that. I hope you find someone else soon who is right for you! Good luck!
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    Dec 21, 2007, 03:26 PM
    She is an ex for an apparently good reason. Keep it that way. If you do not want that influence with the kinky people and you do not want anything to jump out at you and possibly infect you, stay away and be glad she is gone.

    I would not, so not, go over to these people's home anymore. There has to be other people you know or can get to know. Good luck to you.

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