[lily21]

Earlier this summer I met this guy through work. We started talking and learning about each other and two weeks later we go on our first date. We had so much in common and we basically hit it off right there. We dated for about 2 months and everything was going smoothly and wonderful. Then one day right out of the blue he said, "I can't see you anymore." At first I thought he was joking but he was serious. It was so weird. When we dated he mentioned how much he really cared for me and everything and would hate to see anything hurt me and that he had never ever felt like this with any girl he had dated. But, yet he did hurt me which is why I am confused. We haven't talked for several weeks and he told me that he doesn't want us talking to each other period. He said he needs to get his life more organized and I understand that but no talking?? Its been hard and the worse part is that I can't get him out of my mind at all. I miss him and I am just so confused about the entire situation. At night I would be either reading a book or watching a movie and then right out of the blue I start crying. Why am I still like this? After several weeks and yet I cry everyday randomly at the most weirdest time. I want to talk to him but yet I am scared to pick up the phone and call him when there is a possibility he will not pickup or return my call...

[akhilz]

Earlier this summer I met this guy through work. We started talking and learning about each other and two weeks later we go on our first date. We had so much in common and we basically hit it off right there. We dated for about 2 months and everything was going smoothly and wonderful. Then one day right out of the blue he said, "I can't see you anymore." At first I thought he was joking but he was serious. It was so weird. When we dated he mentioned how much he really cared for me and everything and would hate to see anything hurt me and that he had never ever felt like this with any girl he had dated. But, yet he did hurt me which is why I am confused. We haven't talked for several weeks and he told me that he doesn't want us talking to each other period. He said he needs to get his life more organized and I understand that but no talking??? Its been hard and the worse part is that I can't get him out of my mind at all. I miss him and I am just so confused about the entire situation. At night I would be either reading a book or watching a movie and then right out of the blue I start crying. Why am I still like this? After several weeks and yet I cry everyday randomly at the most weirdest time. I want to talk to him but yet I am scared to pick up the phone and call him when there is a possiblity he will not pickup or return my call....

Verbalize what you want to say to him, go over it a few times, pick up the phone and call him at the time he is not home, leave the message on his answering machine or email him, express yourself, the way you feel about him (once only) and then leave the rest to the divine play...

No need to try to forget him, keep loving, in fact let your love be expressed towards whatever you do and whoever you come across and like to share with (and is ready to receive). Express your love to the children, nature, friends, family... Let your love expand beyond the confines of a person in particular.