Missing Exboyfriend confusion
Earlier this summer I met this guy through work. We started talking and learning about each other and two weeks later we go on our first date. We had so much in common and we basically hit it off right there. We dated for about 2 months and everything was going smoothly and wonderful. Then one day right out of the blue he said, "I can't see you anymore." At first I thought he was joking but he was serious. It was so weird. When we dated he mentioned how much he really cared for me and everything and would hate to see anything hurt me and that he had never ever felt like this with any girl he had dated. But, yet he did hurt me which is why I am confused. We haven't talked for several weeks and he told me that he doesn't want us talking to each other period. He said he needs to get his life more organized and I understand that but no talking?? Its been hard and the worse part is that I can't get him out of my mind at all. I miss him and I am just so confused about the entire situation. At night I would be either reading a book or watching a movie and then right out of the blue I start crying. Why am I still like this? After several weeks and yet I cry everyday randomly at the most weirdest time. I want to talk to him but yet I am scared to pick up the phone and call him when there is a possibility he will not pickup or return my call...