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upset · Nov 6, 2007, 03:36 PM

There is this boy at my school that I fancy a lot I can't stop thinking about him what should I do cause I'm a boy as well

confused4 · Nov 6, 2007, 03:46 PM

Originally Posted by upset

there is this boy at my school that i fancy alot i can't stop thinking about him what should i do cause im a boy aswell

Aw.. honestly my heart melted when I heard that. Idky. But it did. My brothers gay, and I really suport him. But anyway, I think you should try and figure out your feelings before your sure that that's what they are. And go from there with your instint.

Clough · Nov 7, 2007, 02:53 AM

Originally Posted by upset

there is this boy at my school that i fancy alot i can't stop thinking about him what should i do cause im a boy aswell

How old are you, please?

upset · Nov 7, 2007, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by Clough

How old are you, please?

14 why

Clough · Nov 7, 2007, 02:23 PM

Originally Posted by upset

14 why

Because knowing that will help people in answering your question.

Is the other boy the same age as you?

Are you attracted to girls?

upset · Nov 8, 2007, 08:57 AM

Originally Posted by Clough

Because knowing that will help people in answering your question.

Is the other boy the same age as you?

Are you attracted to girls?

Yes he is the same age and I am attracted to girls

oreo630 · Nov 11, 2007, 09:53 PM

Wait why can't you stop thinking about him? Do you think he's hott? Well you shudnt.. hi I'm 13 ! Lol srry but yea den if you like grls den you must be bi! Before you go gay consider that grls are very hott and deres a 1 in a million chance that that guy likes you because he mite be strait. And I don't know many gay 14-year olds.. stay strait! Gay isn't good! Lol

upset · Nov 12, 2007, 08:47 AM

Originally Posted by oreo630

wait y can't u stop thinkin about him? do u think hes hott? well u shudnt..hi im 13 ! lol srry but yea den if u like grls den u must b bi! b4 u go gay consider dat grls r very hott and deres a 1 in a million chance dat dat guy likes u because he mite b strait. and i dont kno many gay 14-year olds.. stay strait! gay isnt good! lol

Well I can't stop thinking about him because he is really cute and I like his personatle and I'm not gay I'm bi plus what's wrong with being gay or bi?

confused4 · Nov 12, 2007, 08:47 AM

Ummm what's wrong wif being gay? Nothing. If you really love someone why would you just cover up and say your straight. that's dumb. THers nothing wrong wif being gay!! But I think you should wait and see if this is how you really feel abought this person. So you
oreo630 don't know what there talking bought, no fence, lol.

templelane · Nov 12, 2007, 09:02 AM

At fourteen I think you should look but don't touch. There is nothing wrong with being gay but advancing on your feelings at this age can lead to a myriad of problems. Fourteen year old 'straight' boys do not act well to another boy coming on to them. They barely act well to girls coming on to them so you see what I mean. Spare yourself the heartache/ trouble in that area.

When you get a bit older and if you still think you are bi you should try and find your local gay community, it can be very supportive. How do you do that? If you go to collage check out the LGBT, or if not try gay community sites such as gaydar.com in the uk. They are places to make gay friends and find boyfriends. I really think you should wait though as I know that there are some unscrupulous men out there who would be more than willing to take advantage of you because of your age and inexperience.

So my general message is don't worry if you are gay or bi, but don't rush into things, and don't isolate yourself at school by making advances to any boy you don't know for sure is gay or bi also. Oh and don't label yourself too young!

Here is a handy Q & A about what I mentioned
Finding Other Gay Teens - Information for GLBT Youth on Finding Other Gay Teens

emoXpixxie · Nov 12, 2007, 09:17 AM

There is abosolutely nothing wrong at all with being gay, and never let anyone tell you otherwise. I am 13 and bisexual (I'm pretty damn sure anyway) and what templelane said is true. If you do confront this boy he may react badly, tell everyone at school and you be bullied. Some people are mean like that. Or he might take advantage of you liking him and manipulate you into doing things for him. There is quite a big chance you could get hurt. However, finding out about his sexulity is a good idea. Does he have a girlfriend or has he had them in the past? You should be careful what you decide, but in the end its what you want to do that matters. Hope this helped and good luck =)

upset · Nov 12, 2007, 11:01 AM

Originally Posted by emoXpixxie

There is abosolutely nothing wrong at all with being gay, and never let anyone tell you otherwise. I am 13 and bisexual (I'm pretty damn sure anyway) and what templelane said is true. If you do confront this boy he may react badly, tell everyone at school and you be bullied. Some people are mean like that. Or he might take advantage of you liking him and manipulate you into doing things for him. There is quite a big chance you could get hurt. However, finding out about his sexulity is a good idea. Does he have a girlfriend or has he had them in the past? You should be careful what you decide, but in the end its what you want to do that matters. Hope this helped and good luck =)

He doesn't have a girlfreind and he is bixexual he wouldent manipulate me because he is my friend