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    dazedandconfused24 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 1, 2007, 07:34 PM
    Too good for him
    What does it mean when a man says you "do it for him" but also says you are "too good for him"... but still wants to be friends and says he feels he can tell you anything... and will also tell you about other women he is with etc
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    Jul 2, 2007, 12:57 AM
    This means that he never wanted to be with you and he just broke up with you. Maybe he needs someone to talk to about the girls he's being with so you are there to listen.
    The phrase "do it for him" means do his "work" for him. The phrase "too good for him" means that he's scared to be with you or he wants to be with you but not fully be with you. In other words he wants to be with you but then on the other hand he wants to be with other girls and other girls around his friends.(if that makes scence)
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    Jul 2, 2007, 06:43 AM
    Too good for him? Okay, that mean you ARE TOO GOOD for him, when a guy says that, trust me he means it!! He is problly intimidated by your quslifications! There is nothing wrong with you darling. He need to get over with it. Be careful , he might be using you, just a thought...
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    Jul 2, 2007, 06:46 AM
    Normally it's the easiest way to break up with you without hurting you. Sorry that was a little harsh but that's how guys are.
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    Aug 1, 2007, 04:18 PM
    Your too good for him. He probably wants to be with other grls but nos you are there to listen he just wants to be friends and that's all. He doesn't want anything more rite now. Being friends is a smart idea maybe he'll grow closer and like you more if your friends for a while.
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    Aug 1, 2007, 04:32 PM
    U might be really "too good for him" some of us suffering questioning ourselves on those questions, think that might be our problems. In fact, some cases I have seen, they do think we are too good for them
    Are you an overachiever in some way?
    SOme men can't stand on women more successful and intelligent than they are. It's true, but not all men are like that.
    Move on and find the one that loves you the way u are, not intimidated by you.:)
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    Aug 1, 2007, 04:36 PM
    It means he likes you but he thinks that you are wayyy too good for him. But by the way your question goes, sounds like he might be playin' ya.

    ---> Ps: YEAH DAZED AND CONFUSED!
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    Aug 2, 2007, 04:42 PM
    A guy told me something similar one time which really meant that he liked the physical aspects of being with me but did not want a relationship--basically that he would have wanted me to be his sex buddy but nothing else. When he says you are too good for him he is basically using it as a cop out to say he doesn't want a relationship. But as everyone else has said, they are usually right when they say it... any guy who would say it to you isn't good enough for you.
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    Aug 2, 2007, 06:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dazedandconfused24
    What does it mean when a man says you "do it for him" but also says you are "too good for him"...but still wants to be friends and says he feels he can tell you anything...and will also tell you about other women he is with etc
    How come all the responses have apparently been from gurlz?

    If a guy says "you do it for him" in my opnion (as a guy) means you are very attractive and he's turned on by you, but if he says you're "too good for him" he respects you as a person, not a "partner" and he's probably too imature now and he wants to experiment in life and not demean you or the way he perceives you.
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    Aug 2, 2007, 07:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by CaptainRich
    How come all the responses have apparently been from gurlz?

    If a guy says "you do it for him" in my opnion (as a guy) means you are very attractive and he's turned on by you, but if he says you're "too good for him" he respects you as a person, not a "partner" and he's probably too imature now and he wants to experiment in life and not demean you or the way he perceives you.
    I totally agree, he is too IMMATURE!
    Glad he said that, time to leave, never come back to him until he grows up.
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    Aug 2, 2007, 07:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by dazedandconfused24
    What does it mean when a man says you "do it for him" but also says you are "too good for him"...but still wants to be friends and says he feels he can tell you anything...and will also tell you about other women he is with etc
    That you're an awsome girl but he found someone prettier. Your not to good for him, because he's a low down jerk.
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    Aug 3, 2007, 03:56 PM
    I think this is just an excuse for him to get rid of you and date other girls. Harsh, I know, but true? Yes.
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