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    TheMaster170 Posts: 38, Reputation: 3
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    Jul 18, 2007, 08:32 AM
    Once again, I cannot understand some things you do!
    Yesterday, my girl was depressed with her life! I decided to stop doing what I was doing and dedicate myself to her! I ask her what was going wrong! She said "no go back to what you were doing"! I told "No! You're more important than everything in this world to me"
    She said "No! I am going to the beach to relax!"

    She said that the problem was nothing related to me.

    Why can't she tell me? Is this common in women? Was this not to make me worried? (If it was, I'm still worried)
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    Jul 18, 2007, 08:35 AM
    Sometimes we just want to be left alone. It will be about you if you keep nagging at her to talk about it. She will say it soon or later, just give her the time she needs. And if she chooses to keep this to her self then you need tounderstand and let it fly! I feel like this sometimes and my husband just feeds way to far into it. She just needs to relax and be left alone! Good luck!
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    Jul 18, 2007, 09:00 AM
    Yeah give her some space and time, but let her know you're there for her and welcome to run into your arms anytime she wants to.
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    Jul 18, 2007, 09:52 AM
    Hello.

    It might not have anything to do with you, It could be that she just needs time and space. The worst thing you can do is push her so take a step back but don't ignore her. Let her know your there when she needs you. Flowers would be nice to help relax her and show her you care.

    Good Luck
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    TheMaster170 Posts: 38, Reputation: 3
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    Jul 18, 2007, 11:39 AM
    I liked every opinion till now. Thanks
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    Jul 18, 2007, 11:55 AM
    Just give her some space. I know when I need space and people crowd me I get a bit anxious. Just let her have her relaxation time and don't worry yourself:)
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    Jul 18, 2007, 01:49 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by TheMaster170
    Yesterday, my girl was depressed with her life! I decided to stop doing what I was doing and dedicate myself to her! I ask her what was going wrong! She said "no go back to what you were doing"! I told "No! You're more important than everything in this world to me"
    She said "No! I am going to the beach to relax!"

    She said that the problem was nothing related to me.

    Why can't she tell me? Is this common in women? Was this not to make me worried? (If it was, I'm still worried)
    She wants you to keep asking. She wants to know if your going to be there for her. I think you should just spend time with her and not talk about it for a while. After a few days ask once and again in a relax voice and tell you're here for her whenever she needs you.
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