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    Jul 20, 2014, 05:44 PM
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    Hi. I am undecided on something and I would like help. About a month and a half ago I got out of a bad relationship and I had a child with that person. I really like someone new and he makes me happy but what I'm scared of is people judging me about dating so soon. What should I do? Am I rushing it? Or do I have the right?
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    Jul 20, 2014, 06:31 PM
    1 month out of a relationship and a child to boot? Yes, you're rushing it. After a bad relationship anyone who treats you decent would make you happy.
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    Jul 21, 2014, 07:16 AM
    You have a right to do whatever you want, even rebound from one failed bad relationship into a new one as quickly as you want.

    Anything probably looks good right now to someone fresh from a bad relationship, but it's entirely up to YOU. Be careful, and get rid of old baggage before you buy a new bag. Don't be so desperate to feel better that you fall for anything that looks good. It's a common mistake to skip the healing process.

    What's the hurry to decide anything right now? I have to ask are you repeating the same mistakes of your last relationship? Obviously it's a concern of the ones who are telling you it's too soon.
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