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    magicj2185 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Dec 22, 2013, 07:23 PM
    After 9 months she won't sleep with me
    I've been in a relationship with a girl for 9 months, and we are yet to have sex. I'm 19 and she is 18, and neither of us are virgins. She told me that her only time she regrets. Do I have anything to worry about? It feels like 9 months is too long...
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    Dec 22, 2013, 07:48 PM
    Where did you get the idea that 9 months is too long? Some people actually wait until they are married. Or at least totally committed to each other.

    If you are not willing to wait until she is ready then you may want to move on.
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    Dec 22, 2013, 07:57 PM
    If you aren't willing to wait for sex until she is ready then you have no business with this female, virgins or NOT. That's irrelevant.
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    Dec 26, 2013, 08:17 AM
    It does not matter what you feel. If she does not want to have sex with you then you wait or you move on. There is no time limit, it happens when she is ready, not when you think there has been enough time.
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    Dec 26, 2013, 09:12 AM
    I'm with everyone else... you man up and suck it up... and get acquaninted with Rosey Palmer.

    It happens on her schedule... or not at all. Pushing it any sooner than she is ready or wants it is legally considered rape... and something you really don't want to be accused of.

    Her being a virgin or not has nothing to do with it. THere is no right to sex implied or otherwise until the wedding ring is on the hand... and even then its got to to be with her concent.

    There were many times I got it on the first date... and some that after over a year I got nothing. That's life. You accept it or move on to someone new.

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