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Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 02:00 AM

I'm a freshman in high school and there is a girl I have know since 6th. I have never really had any classes with her until 8th grade, but in 8th, she had a jerk of a boyfriend that only lasted a year. This year I think she really noticed me during a icebreaker activity on the 2nd day and we talked at a rally for a bit.

The next day she asked me to sit next to her during class out of the blue but the teacher said no. After that we say hi but I don't have much conversation with her any more.

One other problem is I only have one period with her and I have never seen her else where. I was wondering what I could do to interact with her more and get other tips.

Fr_Chuck · Sep 10, 2013, 02:39 AM

Call her on the phone, talk to her though face book,

Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 12:58 PM

She has no Facebook, and I don't just want to seem creepy and ask for her number

Wondergirl · Sep 10, 2013, 01:14 PM

It would be creepy to ask for her number? You two have already met and talked. So it wouldn't be creepy! Get a spine and ask for her number!

odinn7 · Sep 10, 2013, 01:17 PM

Dude! She asked you to sit near her! Talk to her... just do it. Make small talk and ask for her number then.

Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 01:32 PM

Thanks hearing it from someone else helps

By the way any body who sees this and has similar scenarios please post it here

Wondergirl · Sep 10, 2013, 01:39 PM

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

by the way any body who sees this and has similar scenarios please post it here

Post WHAT here? This is not rocket science!

Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 03:09 PM

I meant on this page

Wondergirl · Sep 10, 2013, 03:12 PM

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

i meant on this page

There is only one thing to do -- talk to her again and exchanged phone numbers.

Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 03:12 PM

For having such a nice profile that was a ty remark wondergirl

Wondergirl · Sep 10, 2013, 03:15 PM

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

for having such a nice profile that was a ty remark wondergirl

I've been that girl. There are no "scenarios" -- thus, talk to me and give me your phone number and I will give you mine, so we can talk and get to know each other, since there doesn't seem to be any other way we can connect (speaking as if I am that girl).

Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 03:35 PM

What I meant by scenarios was that I only have 1 and a half hours to talk to her every 2 days and most of that time she is working there is never a open moment and the weird thing is I have literally never seen her out side of that classroom once this year as if we are always on opposite sides of the school

Wondergirl · Sep 10, 2013, 03:38 PM

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

what i meant by scenarios was that i only have 1 and a half hours to talk to her every 2 days and most of that time she is working there is never a open moment and the wierd thing is i have literally never seen her out side of that classroom once this year as if we are always on opposite sides of the school

Do you know her name? Does she have any girl friends you can connect with?

Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 03:42 PM

Alexis but I'm not saying any more if you understand and she does but I don't see them and they wouldn't help

I remember almost every thing she has said about her self and that is how she noticed me

Alty · Sep 10, 2013, 03:59 PM

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

what i meant by scenarios was that i only have 1 and a half hours to talk to her every 2 days and most of that time she is working there is never a open moment and the wierd thing is i have literally never seen her out side of that classroom once this year as if we are always on opposite sides of the school

Where do you eat lunch? Do you go home for lunch or stay at the school? Where does she eat lunch? Does she take the bus to school, get picked up, walk, ride her bike? Talk to her and find out these things. There's nothing stopping you from asking if she wants to sit with you during lunch so the two of you can talk and get to know each other. If she walks to school, offer to walk with her. Ask her for her number, most teens have cell phones nowadays, so ask if you can call her.

You only live once. If you won't make things happen for yourself because you're too afraid to try, then nothing good will ever happen. Worst case scenario is that she's not interested, but at least then you'll know, and you can move on. Right now you're dreaming about something that's totally possible, but you're too afraid to take the very small steps to see if it will happen.

Aace82nd · Sep 10, 2013, 04:00 PM

I have tried to talk to her but she is always busy

There are 4 lunches, a b c d and I have looked. She did tell me she plays field hockey and I told her I'd go to her games which she would obviously appreciate but she tore her ACL and is out for another week

I'm just wondering if she's still interested in me

Alty · Sep 10, 2013, 04:11 PM

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

there are 4 lunches, a b c d and i have looked. she did tell me she plays field hockey and i told her i'd go to her games which she would obviously appreciate but she tore her ACL and is out for another week

Do you know where she lives? Does she live close to your house? If she does, maybe the two of you can meet after school, go for a bike ride, or a walk, or just sit and talk.

I have to say, none of the guys I dated in high school went to my school. They were all from different schools. We met, we'd call each other, we'd meet up to do stuff (go for a walk, bike ride, go swimming, go to a movie). We didn't have cell phones back then, we had one land line, and I wasn't allowed to spend hours tying it up. One guy lived in the country, a 30 minute drive away. This was before either of us were old enough to drive, but we still managed to get together.

You have to make things happen if you're really interested in someone. So talk to her. Obviously the two of you do talk, because you do seem to know a lot about her. So take it one step further, ask her for her number, ask her if she wants to meet up one night for an hour or two. Ask her to a movie on the weekend. Ask.

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

im just wondering if she's still interested in me

Only she can answer that. We can't tell you what she's feeling, or thinking. No one but her can answer that question.

talaniman · Sep 10, 2013, 05:53 PM

At the risk of being an over reacting jerk, if you keep making excuses and obstacles for yourself you will never even make friends with her and how can she even develop an interest in you if you don't make time to show you are interested?

I mean how long does it take to say hi, can I call you? At least try instead of whine about why you can't. Sorry to sound like a jerk, but you need to get real, and keep it real. You will never know what you can do if you aren't willing to try.

Aace82nd · Sep 16, 2013, 01:48 PM

FYI I asked her to homecoming on Friday so just shut up none of you were any help
And talamanian you are just insensitive

Alty · Sep 16, 2013, 03:05 PM

Originally Posted by Aace82nd

FYI I asked her to homecoming on Friday so just shut up none of you were any help
And talamanian you are just insensitive

Wow, nice attitude.

What did you expect us to do, call her for you, give you the confidence you didn't have, put a spell on you or her? Seriously, what did you expect when you asked your question? What the hell did you think we could do other than offer advice, which was done.

Grow up!