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    #21

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    im hoping once i get rid of sean we will go back to how we were and I can forget all the people, lose all the feeling, and forget this ever happened
    Take a few minutes to Google those names. It won't be that easy to just get rid of her. Suppose she tells people. It's not difficult for the police to get involved, especially if she commits suicide.
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    #22

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Take a few minutes to google those names. It won't be that easy to just get rid of her. Suppose she tells people. It's not difficult for the police to get involved, especially if she commits suicide.
    After two years of this, she must have all sorts of contact information from you, that you can be tracked down.
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    #23

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:16 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by teacherjenn4 View Post
    Take a few minutes to google those names. It won't be that easy to just get rid of her. Suppose she tells people. It's not difficult for the police to get involved, especially if she commits suicide.
    Exactly. This sort of thing is on TV all the time, people falling for someone online that is completely lying about who they are. If this girl ever sent money, or a gift, or something happens to her because of the OP's lies, her boyfriend breaking up with her will be the least of her worries. She could end up being arrested, and possibly going to jail.

    If the OP decides not to tell the truth, it's just a matter of time before the truth comes out. Once it's online it's there forever. The Sean persona won't fade away, and I'm very sure the girl has every email or post ever sent to her from "Sean".

    This is no longer about what the OP wants, it's about right and wrong, and hopefully she'll pay for what she's done in one way or another. Let's just hope that the innocent victims, the girl and the OP's boyfriend, aren't the ones that end up paying the ultimate price.

    This OP makes me sick.
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    Mar 24, 2013, 09:18 PM
    This isn't the first time the OP has done something like this. She was here years ago with a similar situation saying how she made a mistake that she won't ever do again... and how bad she felt:

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...re-370150.html

    Then, for a deeper look, this might give a little more insight as well:

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...em-372042.html


    I think the OP seriously needs some sort of help that we can't give.
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    #25

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    After two years of this, she must have all sorts of contact information from you, that you can be tracked down.
    She's saving up to come see the OP this summer, and the OP is worried about it, so obviously this girl has her address, knows where she lives. Let's hope that she gets suspicious and calls the cops.

    Tracking down Simone won't be hard at all.
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    #26

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    What if this girl says she will hurt herself or even commit suicide if "Sean" leaves her?
    I don't know. I don't know what I should do. That's why I'm here. I'm not sure if I should tell her the truth, not only out of fear of my secret being revealed and being rejected or hated but also fear of what she will do with her life after I'm gone and how it could possibly severely damage her emotionally. She trusted me with everything and told me things she never even told her closet friends and family members. I never intended for things to go this far but they did and I don't know how to get myself out of it. Simply telling everyone the truth isn't so simple
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    Mar 24, 2013, 09:19 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    After two years of this, she must have all sorts of contact information from you, that you can be tracked down.
    It's big news here in California where it took place. Very sad for the parties involved, especially the young woman whose picture was pulled from Facebook, unbeknownst to her, and was used as the fake woman in this case.
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    #28

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:21 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    i dont know. i dont know what i should do. thats why im here. im not sure if i should tell her the truth, not only out of fear of my secret being revealed and being rejected or hated but also fear of what she will do with her life after im gone and how it could possibly severely damage her emotionally. she trusted me with everything and told me things she never even told her closet friends and family members. i never intended for things to go this far but they did and i dont know how to get myself out of it. simply telling everyone the truth isnt so simple
    It's not going to be simple, especially if the police get involved.
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    #29

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:27 PM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...em-372042.html

    I want something to be wrong with me. I like being damaged. I want to have a mental illness or for something bad to happen to me. Its exciting to me. I feel that I have problems now but I want more. I want to feel more pain and cry more. Not physical pain but emotional. I want to feel like the worst person on earth. I want self destruction. What's wrong with me?? I think I might just want attention but I always push people away.
    Good catch Odinn.

    Ladies and Gentlemen, I think we're being trolled. Hell, she's admitted she's a liar, she lies about everything, so why should this be any different? The above quote from one of her other threads really does say it all.

    This girl/guy whatever, hell, who knows if it's female or male, so I'll go with it, waited way too long to get professional help. Either way, I don't believe a word that comes out of its mouth.

    I do have to congratulate it, there is definitely something wrong with it, but I won't give it the attention it wants so badly.

    If what it posted on this thread is true, it'll be getting a lot of attention very soon. The girls in prison love little liars like it. Don't drop the soap when you're in the community shower.

    Bye now.
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    #30

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:36 PM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...er-283326.html

    On November 20, 2008 her mom puts her on lockdown because of her grades.

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...er-283326.html

    On November 20, 2008 (same day) she suddenly has no mother, never knew her mother.

    This person wouldn't know the truth if it hit her in the eye.
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    #31

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by from July 2009
    I skimmed through this thread interested at first but soon becoming bored with it... The OP seems to have nothing better to do but argue with us how she feels... I find there to be no point. I don't think she need any help I think she is just bored and came across an interesting topic and is now playing with us...
    Are you in the process of writing a novel?
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    #32

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:46 PM
    What kind of advice site has this become?? Peopole are wanting to go to jail and track me down! What did I do that's illegal? And yes those are my previous post from a LONG time ago. And I did get profession help but only for the quality of the relationship I had with my guardian. I call my guardian my mother because I have lived with her since I was 2 and a half months old and she never told me she wasn't my real mother until I was older. My BIRTH mother, I have not seen or had contact with since I was 10 years. But think what you want. You think I come here to lie and get attention? You have the right to your own opinions. But OBVIOUSLY this is no longer a site for advise/help anonymously so I no longer will be using it.
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    #33

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:55 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Simone21295 View Post
    What kind of advice site has this become??? Peopole are wanting to go to jail and track me down! What did I do thats illegal?? And yes those are my previous post from a LONG time ago. And I did get profession help but only for the quality of the relationship i had with my gaurdian. I call my gaurdian my mother because I have lived with her since i was 2 and a half months old and she never told me she wasnt my real mother until i was older. My BIRTH mother, i have not seen or had contact with since i was 10 years. But think what you want. You think I come here to lie and get attention? You have the right to your own opinions. But OBVIOUSLY this is no longer a site for advise/help anonymously so i no longer will be using it.
    You admitted to being a liar, you've admitted to wanting attention, we know for a fact that you are a liar, that you go on the internet and make up stories, that's what your entire thread is about! So why would we believe you, a self proclaimed liar?

    Why should we believe what you're saying. It makes more sense that this is yet another of your lies, another of your fake profiles, another way for you to get attention.

    We gave you advice, we told you to tell the truth. You don't want to do that. Well frankly, yes, you can end up in jail for this. This isn't the first time you've done this, and I doubt it will be the last. Obviously the help you got years ago, didn't work.

    Lie, truth, whatever, you're in a lot of trouble, and there's really nothing we can do to help other than to tell you to come clean and never ever do this again. Whatever consequences there are to your actions, you'll have to deal with them, and hopefully learn from them.

    But really, how can you expect us to believe a word that comes out of your mouth when you yourself have told us you do nothing but lie to people online. It takes up all of your time!
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    #34

    Mar 24, 2013, 09:59 PM
    Mods, I think this thread should be shut down. The OP got advice, the only advice anyone can give her. Now it's up to someone else to deal with.

    Frankly, I don't think she should be given a choice to continue on this site. She's a self proclaimed liar, she wants drama in her life, she wants attention (her words, not mine) and I don't think this site should give it to her. Let's not allow her to play us too.
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    Mar 24, 2013, 10:12 PM
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    #36

    Mar 24, 2013, 10:15 PM
    Simone, you are a very cruel person. You are selfish beyond imagination.

    You need professional help. More than you will get here.

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