[ItsRoxanne]

Hi I've been dating this guy online he's really nice and sweet and I love him a lot and I know he's real because I've video chatted with him. But him not being with me is kind of hard, I miss him a lot that it hurts and sometimes I cry at night. So I was just wondering how I can make it not hurt anymore, if breaking up with him is the thing then I will do it even though I don't want to. Thanks for your help.

[Heb0717]

Go see him, drive the distance, take a flight... Do something to hang out. That's what me and my boyfriend did. We talked online for months and then finally met up halfway between us. It was the best thing I've ever done. He is the one I will marry. If you think he's worth it, go to him, work with him on finding a solution. Orrr--tough it out a little longer, things may change.

[joypulv]

You aren't 'dating.'
You can't 'love him a lot' because you have never experienced real life together.
You don't know someone is 'real' online, not even on video.
He could be married. He could be lying about his age and all sorts of things. Some men (and women) also go online and have dozens of people, just for fun or to scam them out of money.
Until you see where he lives, meet him, meet his family and friends, and know ALL about him, you should be very very cautious.

[Fr_Chuck]

Agreed,
Online is not dating, you are talking, you date also in real life and talk to him and keep knowing both people.

How far away does he live, how many times have you traveled to his area, how many has he traveled to your area.
Is he free to call any time day or night ?