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    Nov 17, 2012, 07:38 PM
    Is there still hope for us?
    How do I get my boyfriend back? Its officially been three weeks sense we broke up (23 days) he broke up with me because he was really stressed out and he has a lot going on with his family he said "he just can't do it right now" the day after we broke up he came over to get his stuff.. we were together for 6 months and he pretty much lived with me for 2.. When he came to get his stuff we talked for like 10 minutes and all he really said was he "needs time to get his head straight" I asked him if we could work things out and all but he said he couldn't do it right now.. I hadn't talked to him sense until 4 days ago, I ran into him in town he was with a bunch of his friends and I wasn't even going to talk to him until his friend called me over.. I ended up going over talking for like 2 seconds and giving him something I still had that belonged to him.. I still have some of his other stuff and he has mine but he doesn't want to talk to me.. I don't know why, really I have done absolutely nothing wrong he broke up with me completely out of the blue and for pretty much no reason at all.. he said I could just give his stuff to out mutual friend and hed do the same with mine... but I don't want that I want to actually be able to talk to him.. at the very least to just know what happened, the only time I've seen him he was with hs friends, I still love him more than anything and being near him scares me so bad, I was so nervous I was skahing SOO hard when I was talking to him, I love him so much, truly I do but when I'm near him I just feel like he's going to shut me down or he hates me or something, I don't know what to do.. please help, that's my story but I need to know how I can get him back.. I know he still loves me he said so when he came to get his stuff he sat down on my bed and said "he didnt want to leave yet" and when he was leaving he was like "i love you, ill call you tonight" he didn't call.. but for a good reason and he texted me to explain but after that, we hadn't talked sense.. until I seen him, I texted him the other day because our mutual friend gave me one of my things.. my ex only gave him ONE thing and kept the rest.. we talked for a while and I ended up asking him some questions I needed answers to.. I asked him if he still loved me when he broke up with me and he said "when i left yes i did but now ive lost feelings" how is it even possible to loose freelings that fast, literally 3 weeks ago he was telling me he loved me and he wanted to spend his life with me and he didn't know what he would do without me.. what do I do?? I truly love this guy more than anything in the world, he is everything to me and I need to get him back, I know we wernt together very long but I truly believe he is the one for me.. please help me how do I get him back?
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    Nov 18, 2012, 07:48 PM
    Well it seem like somebody told him something or he met somebody else just try to stay busy and think about you
    and do he call you at all and when he wit his friends what is his expression when he see you?
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    Nov 18, 2012, 08:02 PM
    He hasn't really seen me sense but when he did he didn't really look at me much.. and when he did he seemed really upset but then today he decided to inform me he has a new girl... fml
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    Nov 18, 2012, 08:11 PM
    1st Wat do (FML) mean and I figured that now don't force yourself to move on take tyme for you go out spend the night out or tell him he could have been told you instead of having you so confused but just do your best to stay active
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    Nov 18, 2012, 08:19 PM
    Yeah I'm trying it just sucks like he still has all my stuff and I have a bunch of his.. but I guess they just started dating last week... do you think she's a rebound? And what do I do about my stuff he dosetn want to give it back... well he hasn't so far
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    Nov 18, 2012, 08:24 PM
    She is a rebound and I think he don't want to give you your stuff is because if he do you'll leave him alone but get your stuff get somebody to go wit you and give him anything you have of his and the girl he dating ain't nothing just get your stuff move on you can do better
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    Nov 18, 2012, 08:31 PM
    I don't know just makes me feel like complete that he would choose some girl he doesn't even know.. with a friggin kid.. and to be honest she's not very attractive I mean I consider myself a decent looking girl but man, I did everything for him.. literally everything gave him a bunch of money and everything and he told me being with me was stressful and being with her is just easy...
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