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Feb 16, 2010, 06:44 PM
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What do I do about my girlfriend making a big deal out of little things
Okay so, my girlfriend and I have been together for a little over a year now. I think were great together. I love her to death! She means the absolute world to me. And she thinks the same of me. We tell each other that every day almost. But the past 2 weeks have been nothing but argueing and once on the edge of braking up. All of our arguments have been about petty little things that she (in my mind) gets upset over for no good reason. Me talking to a girl in my class that she doesn't like. I said one thing to her and aparently "im hiding something" for not telling her that that girl is in my class. And she makes a huge deal out of it and we almost brake up. Turns out she's just jealous. But she never completely apologized. But whatever I just let it go. More and more things keepp happening. She keeps fliping out and getting all dramatic over silly imature things, that shouldn't be given a second thought. And I don't understand. She's igonoring me and is walking out on me when I get frustrated with her because I don't understand where all of this is coming from. I've even talked to her boyfriend and she doesn't understand either. Some on pleeeasee help. This is killing me. I love her and just want it to stop. pleeeaasee.
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Feb 16, 2010, 07:25 PM
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Try talking to your girlfriend about it, tell her that her behavior is unacceptable and it won't be tolerated. You have to take a stand for yourself before she continues to think this behavior is okay
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Feb 16, 2010, 07:31 PM
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Yes tell her how much you love her and your eyes are only for her! And tell her you can't take it anymore and it must stop!
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Feb 16, 2010, 08:42 PM
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I think the stars are clearing from your eyes, and your seeing things about her you don't like. Honeymoon over, time to be honest, and tell her you don't like it when she blows small things into big ones.
If you accept bad behavior, and do nothing, it gets worse. You may have to dump your cute, little, hot tempered, drama queen.
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Aug 4, 2012, 09:14 AM
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My girlfriend is like this too. We can have a little barney about something small. I'm not saying she's always right or that I'm always right, but if its about something silly, she won't stand down, and if I've explained that there's nothing more about the argument and that we're going around around in circles and that I can't actually say more, she will then bring something else up to argue about, and it become bigger and bigger. BUT she never likes to admit she is wrong. Even if she is wrong! I think that has a big thing to do with it, that she's never wrong. If she can't justify why she's RIGHT about one thing in a small argument, it gets bigger, and bigger until eventually she brings something else up. Right now she's stormed off over the fact that I was playing on my laptop (on minecraft) for two, twenty minute sessions. She said that I was on it at an inappropriate time, but she had the laptop when I was about to go on it both of those occasions. So now she's gone and I'm left here. Attention seeking! Oh year, problem is, she's not been like this for a couple weeks. She's been like this since... over a year!
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