[crissy-jojo]

I know him (from dating site) , he is swiss guy. I am Asian, 2 year before , I found he is not sincere to me , lie , actually he was married men ,but he did lie, after I try to catch his word, after I don’t contact him anymore.
After 2 year, he found me from when I am online , he chat with me , he told me he miss me . After this 2 year, I told him. Because he lie. So I choose do not talk to him.
After this issue, he told me everything. And he is married with one kid, but no leave together. And he ex-wife is Asian too.
After he told me sincere, he even says can prove me with paper he is divorce. But actually now, I don’t really trust him. I feel is like too late, because I think he should not lie to me at before.
And he give me his office work area contact, I check, is it true, after he headphone number.
I mean everything as he can. But..
Now he almost call me every day , to say hello, but the problem each time after he call, he send me the message, asked do I happy he call?
Sometime I asked about he ex-wife ,why their divorce and some time when I make a bit naughty say he got other girl, he reply me , as blab la bla….
Should he reply me .bla bla bla. Is nice or joke ?
Now he is inviting me to swiss, I am worries that can I accept he all lie de did? And he also request me after meet up , he want sex. But he promise , he will do commitment
Should I trust the guy?
Question
1. Should I forgive he lie on beginning (we are know each other from dating sites)
2. What is the problem he asked me do I happy he call me? Is strange to me .
3. Should I accept and give chance to the guy, if he is sincere.
4. Men have been married, after divorce, do men can commit again(marry) ? They are no scare?
5. I don’t know should I have sex with him or not, when we meet, because I am flight off 22 hour to be there, am I worries too
6. As the way I write here, do anyone think he is sincere after he did wrong of the lie? And he is getting sincere ?
Please advise

[Homegirl 50]

I think you need to leave this guy alone. He wants sex.
Do you really think he will commit to you? He did cheat on his wife.
He could be seeing other women now and cheating on them.
I'd leave him alone.