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    Jul 15, 2012, 03:10 PM
    I have jealousy issues and its getting WAY out of hand help
    Just basically when me and my boyfriend first started dating he would flirt and call other girls beautiful and some other stuff but it was a veryyy long time ago and he has changed SOO much now and I am so happy with him he does everything possible to make me happy and doesn't even talk or flirt anymore just tells girls he knows at the mall that they look nice. He doesn't take their number or hang out with them not even on break etc etc he says he just gives compliments because he likes to see them smile but they're just friends and they know he has a girlfriend and he has introduced me to majority of them. That's no big deal to me because he does sooo much and more for me very sweet and caring etc but I can't help but still get jealous and start unnecessary drama its stupid and I know he's getting tired of it and I am too and I don't want to push him away I'm scared to lose him. I have been trying to hide it but he can still tell regardless and gets mad because he has been loyal and is literly with me almost 24 7 swear. Any advice and please excuse my punctuation and grammar don't care right now about it sorry
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    Jul 16, 2012, 12:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by kitkat1989 View Post
    Just basically when me and my bf first started dating he would flirt and call other girls beautiful and some other stuff but it was a veryyy long time ago and he has changed SOO much now and I am so happy with him he does everything possible to make me happy and doesn't even talk or flirt anymore just tells girls he knows at the mall that they look nice. He doesn't take their number or hang out with them not even on break etc etc he says he just gives compliments because he likes to see them smile but they're just friends and they know he has a gf and he has introduced me to majority of them. That's no big deal to me because he does sooo much and more for me very sweet and caring etc but I can't help but still get jealous and start unecessary drama its stupid and I know he's getting tired of it and I am too and I don't want to push him away I'm scared to loose him. I have been trying to hide it but he can still tell regardless and gets mad because he has been loyal and is literly with me almost 24 7 swear. Any advice and please excuse my punctuation and grammer don't care right now bout it sorry

    For starters I'd stop having sex with him until you are more secure with yourself, with him, with the relationship. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/christ...ml#post3197666

    And then there's always the risk of pregnancy -

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