[ishmeetrocks]

I was in a relation for three years, and now she dumped me, and is in a relation with someone else. I have her name on my shoulder tattooed. I loved her like anything, and I can't move on.

The problem is she won't let me move on. Actually I feel she still loves me because being in the relation with her new boyfriend, she kissed me.

P.S. this was her first kiss and it was with me, not the other guy. Suggest me a way out of this mess.

[Wondergirl]

What does her being "in a relation with someone else" mean? And she's kissing you?

[Ravalos3260]

If she actually likes you, she would go back to you in no time. I'm not so sure but perhaps she's in that phase that most partners go through. It's when we begin to realize there's TONS of fish in the sea, and perhaps "I" can find a better one that's right for "me." If she gets sick of the guy, maybe she'll come back to you. OR maybe you've began to bore her, and she wanted a new partner for better entertainment. It could possibly be that her new partner is more physically/mentallyattractive than you. Whatever the case, she left you. Deal with that fact and leave her before the love triangle continues. If she sees you with another female, maybe she'll miss you or feel regret. And why the hell would she be with another guy if she still loves you? How old are you! Sorry but right now we can only hope you move on and buy a pet named after her so that people will think it's your pet's name on your shoulder xD

[none12345]

You move on by not have anything to do with her anymore. Meaning you don't contact, you don't see her, you don't talk to her. Eventually you will be able to move on and not feel hurt anymore and trust me no matter how you hate every girl right now, when a pretty and a girl with a pretty personality walks by, you ll drool over her =P

[talaniman]

I don't know how old you both are but if you want to move on, and out of this mess you leave her alone, and have no more to do with her, and disappear from her life.

Then you keep your dignity and self respect and not be played for a fool by some one that has dumped you for some one else. Blaming the whole female gender for something one female is doing is a lot of anger, and misdirected.

[SentientAndroid]

Lol at Ravalos and the pet thing, but seriously though you have to let it burn man, leave her alone completely. We've all been there. 3 years is a long time to be with someone especially if you guys are under 24. She may have gotten to the point where she had become complacent with you and wanted to see what else the world has to offer. Trust me, I've received the "I'm not the same girl that I was such and such years ago..." spill as well.

Take it as a learning experience and move on. It's going to be incredibly difficult, but you just have to. And like Talianiman said, stop blaming an entire gender on the actions of one girl. You're just bitter atm and it's understandable, but you'll be fine.

[mmresd]

Everyone has hated girls for a small minute after a break up, those feelings will go away.

As far as you having the tattoo of someone who you are not longer with is your own fault, I would never personally do that.