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iwuvyhu147 · Apr 14, 2012, 12:14 PM

Okay... I just spent 4 weeks a cottage hill... mentail stapalisation place... but I'm not like crazy... I don't think... I just have major depression.but I don't have eny friends that are girls.I fell in love once with this guy andrew... I still in love with him and not that fake bull love... reallly love.. I need him... I no he reallly did love me but he's 16.. at the time he was 15... now he like hates me... I lied about my age... by 2 years... I can't have my phone... my only real friend and my only friend that's a girl. Heather.I love her like she's my sister. She nos every thing about me all the abuse by my dad... how I'm not aloud back in school... for a year.how DCF praticly lives at my house.how I have, major depression dissorter, PTSD, ADD,reading dissorter.and some other dissorters... how I'm on so many meds... how I tried to kill myself... im crazy... im sad... I don't no what to do... and now heathers mom said I can't talk to her and if I doher moms taking legal atttions... I need advice.

joypulv · Apr 14, 2012, 12:21 PM

Are you a girl? How old? What country?

joypulv · Apr 14, 2012, 12:24 PM

The one in Massachusetts?
What abuse, what kind?
Why aren't you allowed back in school? Did you cut or OD in school?

iwuvyhu147 · Apr 14, 2012, 06:28 PM

Sexual abuse,mental,phisical,I cut in school and I went to school high... and I theatend some girl... and I'm a girl haha if you were wondering... and I'm not saying how old I am:p

iwuvyhu147 · Apr 14, 2012, 06:31 PM

Oh and I live in ma

iwuvyhu147 · Apr 14, 2012, 06:32 PM

Oh and ps... more questions for me isn't helping... :/

Enigma1999 · Apr 14, 2012, 10:03 PM

I don't blame Heather's mother! Not at all.

You need professional help. It's a shame that you have been abused and no child should have to live that. You suffer from depression, suicidal thoughts, anger, you cut yourself, threaten others, kicked out of school, and so on...

You are a liability to others as well as yourself.

That is why Heather's mother is afraid of you hanging out with her, and again, I don't blame her.

Talk to your school , your church and especially your doctor.

What does your Mother say?

Again, sorry...

iwuvyhu147 · Apr 15, 2012, 04:46 AM

Well my mom nos about everything... shes not that happy... but I only threatened that girl because she took normal girl dramma in to the next level when DCF got involed... she told the school conceller that I'm pregent and my boyfriend raped... me witch is not true... so dcf opened a 40 day case... but me and my ex never did enything sexual.and heathers mom wouldn't letme talk to her before every thing happened... but now if I talk to heather her mom is taking legal actions.

iwuvyhu147 · Apr 15, 2012, 04:48 AM

But thanks for your awnser :)

Cat1864 · Apr 15, 2012, 08:00 AM

So, you are 13/14 or you are 17/18 years old. I am guessing 13/14 since you are still looking at going back to school next year instead of taking other measures and mother's are involved.

You have a lot of problems some of your own making and others that aren't. Are you still getting help for your problems?

Obviously the issues that have Heather's Mother upset existed before you started getting help, but not before the problems began. I have a feeling that both Heather and her mother may be more aware of the affect your issues had on Heather who is probably about your age. Heather probably has her own issues from all of this and her mother is trying to protect her.

I know that is hard for you to understand. Your focus is on your own problems. Even at your age, it is time to take responsibility for what you can do to make your life better. Words do very little to show the progress you are making. Actions speak louder in cases like this. You may not be in the same school Heather is, but I bet you are either being home schooled or are in an alternative school. Which ever path you are own, do your best to make it work. Keep your grades as high as you can. Stay out of trouble. Talk to your mother about things you can get involved in that will help you manage your depression and other issues. Hobbies, diet, exercise, volunteering, etc. can give you productive ways to give yourself mental, emotional, and physical support. Be honest with your doctor(s) and counselors about what you are thinking and feeling. With your mother and doctor make certain the meds you are on are working for you.

Earn back privileges like your phone. Earn back the respect of Heather's Mother and Heather. Become the healthy friend that Heather deserves and that you deserve.

After a few months of getting yourself on track, see if Heather's Mother will agree to a supervised meeting between you and Heather (if Heather would be okay with it.)

iwuvyhu147 · Apr 15, 2012, 09:20 AM

Thanks for the addvice and yeah I'm still getting help(: