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    MaddisonTayler Posts: 18, Reputation: 3
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    Mar 27, 2012, 08:22 AM
    Should I give up or should I fight?
    I told her I liked her because I felt it was fair for her to know I respected the fact that she had a boyfriend and I just didn't want to feel the ache that comes along with someone not knowing your feelings for them.she said she liked me 4 days later she broke up with her boyfriend and told me how she regretted it. Months pass and I'm still feeling this way. But she ran back to her ex. So all hell breaks loose. So I again state my fillings for her she says she feels for me still too. I ask her out on a date. And it was a first date a little tense a little. So and so but by the end it's all right. Then she tells me she's not ready, she has feeling but she doesn't know if that is enough. So I said if that's how you feel then okay, she then says where did I get that she didn't want to be with me. A day later I then tell her that if she didn't feel the same she could have just told me. I could have been getting over her. She said she never lied about her feelings. I didn't understand because she's always complaining about her ex and I don't understand because I feel like I never cross her mind until I'm in her line of sight. Note that I really like her and I want nothing more than for this to work out. But I don't know what I am to her so this makes no since to me.
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    spunkymonkey213 Posts: 61, Reputation: 2
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    Mar 29, 2012, 09:34 PM
    Bro I know how it feels to have that empty feeling in your heart when you see her, I had the almost same situation as you, but the ex was a bud of mine. I am asking her out 2 Moro but just wait till things calm down then go for it.
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    Pettisbel Posts: 30, Reputation: 3
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    Mar 30, 2012, 04:30 AM
    Memories can make great lovers. Even if you both can make a great couple, memories make great lovers. She's not ready to give up her memories she has with her boyfriend for you. I suggest you open your doors to other women while waiting. ;/
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    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
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    Mar 30, 2012, 05:46 AM
    You are apparently her friend and that's it. Accept that. Stop expressing your feeling toward her and spending so much time with her. Time will ease this pain for you.
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    spunkymonkey213 Posts: 61, Reputation: 2
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    Mar 30, 2012, 06:29 AM
    Eventually you will move on. I had a crush in California, but then my family and I moved here. So time will only heal the pain.

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