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    Maby1171 Posts: 6, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 30, 2012, 07:10 PM
    I like this girl but she has a boyfriend
    Hey I'm 16 and this girl is 18 I really like her but she has a boyfriend they have been dating for a long time I'm trying to play the friend card rite now so I can get to her but I don't think it's working like I got her number and we haven't stopd talking since I got her number she seems to be in love with her boyfriend but I really like her I just can't stop thinking about her
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    Jan 30, 2012, 07:16 PM
    I like a girl but she had a boyfriend
    Hey I just met this girl like a week ago and we have not stopd talking since I got her number we have ran and worked put together I am 17 she is 18 but she and her boyfriend seem to be in love they have been dating for about 2 years I think and she loves him I just can't stop thinking about her I really don't know what to do I just haven't stopt thinking about her please help me
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    Jan 30, 2012, 07:37 PM
    Maby, I have merged your posts because they are about the same issue. We can give better advice if you keep all the information in one thread. It also helps keeps discrepancies from occurring such as how old you are. Thank you.

    Now, to answer your question. She has a boyfriend which makes her unavailable and of limits. Think about it this way, you wouldn't want someone trying to take your girlfriend away from you, would you?

    If you did win her away from him, then you would be left worrying about when someone would take her away from you. It would already be a fact that she would be willing to go from one person to another and might even cheat on the person she is with. That is not the type of person you want to have as a girlfriend.

    If you can't control your feelings and be just a friend without wanting more, then leave her alone until you can.
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    Jan 30, 2012, 09:53 PM
    Thank you but I can tell she likes me she touches my chest and my arm and she always tells
    Me
    Good morning but she is in love with her boyfriend
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    Jan 31, 2012, 07:05 AM
    Some people are more physical than others. They use touch as a way to connect, but it doesn't necessarily mean they feel anything more than friendship.

    There will be other females who will interest you if you give them a chance. Leave this one to her boyfriend and enjoy getting to know other people. Have fun and good luck.
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    Jan 31, 2012, 12:49 PM
    Here's a guideline for you: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ip-463250.html

    Sounds to me that you should just stay friends and respect her relationship. If they ever break up, then you can try to pursue her, but until then, keep meeting new people.

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