[Alyssa14]

I need your help. My boyfriend is going though bad times right now, and I don't know what I can do. He doesn't want to hang out with me, he doesn't want to text me, and he cancelled every plan I try to make with him. It is really upseting cause I really do care about him. I NEED help!



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[amicon]

I'm sorry but it seems as if he's dumping you without letting you know face to face.

How old are you?

[Alyssa14]

I am 15 and it's getting better since we have been apart for his vacation but I still don't know what to do I mean I do anything for this guy

[amicon]

A relationship is a two way thing-communication is essential and it's not about you 'doing anything' for him-it's about being committed to each other.

At fifteen this might be your first relationship-it should be fun and carefree,not heavy and miserable.

[talaniman]

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...do-590835.html


Do you think this has anything to do with your so called friend?What is he going through that's so bad that you can't talk about it?

[Alyssa14]

Yes this does have some relation to my friend but we aren't friends anymore so it shouldn't be an issue but she does still call him and say how much he is a jerk for ruining our friendship

[talaniman]

Don't get carried away Alyssa, by your intense feelings, I mean he has to do his part in making things work, or get rid of the jerk.

[Fr_Chuck]

Yes, normally when there is trouble in a relationship both sides have problems, at 15, even what will latter seem like minor issues, seem like life shattering.

So first you don't do "everything" for him, that is a one sided relationship, you both need some other friends of your own, time to yourself and share some time together.