[mar1234566]

Me and my girl been together 8 months. She's got the type of mentality where its cute, and special for her to be the first in everything sexual.

Anyway 3 months in she asks me if I'm a virgin, I had told her yes. 6 days ago she found out that I'm not a virgin. She got really mad, and acted like she was Ok. A few hours later around 1 am she said we need to talk, I said Ok, what's it about? She said I'll find out tomorrow. I said Ok, and she stopped texting me.

I woke up in the morning, and she said that we can't be together, she can't stand that I lied, and it hurts. I tried to say sorry, I bought her favorite roses, and walked to her house to see her, and say sorry. She cried, and said I didn't think anybody would do this for me. I said I would do anything for you, and asked her does this mean you'll give me another chance, and she said keep trying for me and, I had asked her a few minutes before I walked to her house, do you still love me? She said yes.

I've been trying for her as best I can but, I'm confused because yesterday when I saw her and, on the day I gave her the roses, we acted like we where still going out. We were doing everything as before but, when I try to text her, she doesn't answer back and, if she does we talk only for a little while.

Whenever I'm with her she reminds me of how I lied saying, "Oh that girls cute why don't you **** her???". I always tell her, listen I'm sorry and I get a little sad. I haven't made an attempt to call her because I'm afraid maybe she won't answer or, she's going to think something.

I'm confused because the people that I asked, one group said she's trying to torture me, another group said I should ignore her a bit and, one group said I should tell her in her face how I feel.

Someone please tell me what they think because, I miss her. At night I try not to but, I end up crying and, thinking to myself what should I do but, have no clue.

[amicon]

There's not a lot you can do-you lied,she got mad and it seems that never mind what you try,she's staying mad.

I would leave her alone-see if she cools down-but,if she doesn't make a serious attempt to repair the relationship-I'd say time to let it go.

[adviceishere]

I agree! Leave her be, she's making an absolute A$$ out of you! She was happy with the roses but said she wants you to try harder? Makes no sense only that she wants you chasing her like a silly little puppy.

[talaniman]

You lied that's bad, but she seemed to have forgiven you, so she doesn't get to rub the past in your face, but for your part stop letting her. Stop being scared of losing her, and stand up to her when she is wrong. If you don't, she will continue laying the guilt trip on you.

Tell her to get another chump to play silly games with, because you are not the one. When you allow bad behavior, you get more of it.

[JudyKayTee]

How old are you?