[Lovely33]

I know I'm not supposed to be looking for love, I'm not. It's just that every girl wants her happy ending in the back of her mind. I also get nervous around the 'decent' guys, but I think my problem is that I don't like making mistakes. Sometimes I can be a perfectionist. I don't want to chose the wrong guy, its hard being in the college environment when dating seems so 'old-fashioned'. My generation doesn't date, they just hookup. They are so impersonal. I don't understand it, so I push myself away from it. It's also hard when I'm so straitlaced versus people my age.

[Homegirl 50]

Then your problem isn't attracting the creepy guys it's learning how to relax with the decent ones.
You just use commonsense with any of them.
Relax and get to know them. The better you know them the more relaxed you'll be.
Take it one step at a time.