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i_luv_me01 · Mar 24, 2011, 12:52 PM

smoothy · Mar 24, 2011, 12:54 PM

How to get people to use the search function. And understand Kids can't be signed away like a car.

cdad · Mar 24, 2011, 01:08 PM

Can you explain more about the situation?

i_luv_me01 · Mar 24, 2011, 01:26 PM

The day I told him I was pregnant with his baby that's was the last day I saw him he left.pop back up when she was 1.
I had to called the cops to make him leave he was beatting us so bad.I went put childsupport on him,he refuses to pay I tried everything and now he has 2 and one on the way he sign his rights over to the first mother and now since I finally found someone who treat my daughter just like she was his.the father won't even call her and it hurts because she finally gotten to meet him and he left without telling her by or anything

i_luv_me01 · Mar 24, 2011, 01:39 PM

Yea your right but when you don't know how to keep your **** in your pants and stop making kids that you can not take care of what else your going to do. And when you have someone that actually want to take care of the child and treat her like she your everything. Hell the father don't even know if she is alive or if she had a roof over her head or even food in her tummy or even clothes on her back

i_luv_me01 · Mar 24, 2011, 01:47 PM

Yea but when your 28yrs old and got a 8yrs that you already sign your rights away,then you also have a 4yr old that you don't even know nothing about her and then you got one on the way and hell you can't even take care of yourself.

Wondergirl · Mar 24, 2011, 01:48 PM

Comment by i_luv_me01
he sign his rights over to the first mother

How do you know this, and what does it mean? What rights?

ScottGem · Mar 24, 2011, 05:23 PM

First this is not texting, we type in full words and sentences here. Your posts are barely understandable.

Second, If you can prove the father is a danger to the child AND you have a HUSBAND willing to adopt you MAY be able to get his rights terminated. Since you really need an attorney to file the adoption petition your first step is to find an attorney who can tell you what the possibility is of getting the adoption done.

Fr_Chuck · Mar 24, 2011, 05:27 PM

There is no way to "make him sign" the court can rule to allow another person to adopt if he is proven to be a danger to the child. Assuming the police was called and there is a record, most likely he was arrested for beating you up, plus you said beating "us" up, so if he harmed the child, and you had it in police record that will help

He can not just sign his rights away unless there is someone to adopt the child. But if he is a danger you can either get his visitation taken away at least but may get his legal rights taken to allow an adoption

Synnen · Mar 24, 2011, 05:56 PM

Originally Posted by i_luv_me01

yea ur right but when u dont know how to keep ur **** in ur pants and stop making kids that u can not take care of what eles ur going to do. and when u have someone that actually want to take care of the child and treat her like she ur everything. hell the father dont even know if she is alive or if she had a roof over her head or even food in her tummy or even clothes on her back

And YOU slept with this guy. What does that say about YOU?

Unless you can prove he's a danger OR you've married and your husband is willing to adopt, almost no court will sever parental rights.

And by PROVE he's a danger, I mean police reports (current), restraining orders, pictures of abuse or neglect, etc. NOT that he yells or ignores her--that's being a jerk, it's not placing her in danger.