[copelandthurman]

There is this girl that I really fell in love with she fell in love with me too but we got into a huge argument about a year ago and I've wanted her back since how do I go about asking her for her forgiveness and getting into a new relationship with her (plus I said a lot of mean and hurtful things I shouldn't have said that's what make it that much harder)

[Wondergirl]

Why do you think she would even give you the time of day? I'm sure she has moved on. It's time you do too. There are lots of other fish in the sea. Start fishing!

[volleyball7girl]

If you really do love her... and you both had a connection... I bet she will forgive you. Just tell her how you really feel. You'll never know what will happen till you try. The worst is she will either have moved on or not forgive you but then you'll know you can let go. So tell her your sorry and you love her and see what happens (and getting her some flowers might be nice)

[talaniman]

If she hasn't called you in a year, I really don't think she has much to say to you. Why have you not moved on from this, and what was this argument about? What has changed since the argument? What if she is happy doing her thing without you?

Normally I would say leave her alone, move forward, not back. I hesitate to tell you to call and see she is receptive, because you may be gravely disappointed if she is not, or if she has moved on. Then it would appear you wasted a year wanting her back.

Do we assume you haven't done anything to move on, or was there something that made you remember the good times, and regret the break up??