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heartbroken5 · Feb 14, 2011, 01:42 PM

I loved him so passionately and he said he loved me but then in just 2 days he told me he met someone else and he's now in love with her. How can I forget him? I feel now that maybe his love wasn't real from the beginning? Could it be he was lying? Though he used to express his love so passionately but one firday he told me that he would never love anyone as he loved me and then on Tuesday he met another girl and he fell for her. How could it be? He wants us to be friends now and he says he can't be away from me but he also says he doesn't love me anymore. Was it love from the beginning? How can I forget him? It's been over a year since he betrayed me and I still love him and I still ache. Pleaaaaaaase help me.

talaniman · Feb 14, 2011, 06:29 PM

He is a lying cheating player, and you gave your heart to a jack rabbit who hops from hole to hole. You have to let go now, so read the stickies here.

sorya · Feb 21, 2011, 09:38 AM

Well as I guy I will tell you a secret! Most guys and I mean most will tell woman whatever they want to hear especially in the beginning when you first meet. If he is willing to say he loves someone else right away means he never really loved you and he really doesn't love this new girl. Guys say things to get in your pants and then it's on to the next. We also keep ex's as friends in the hopes of keeping them on a string and pulling the strings as we need them. It sounds like that's what's happening to you. I'm married now but I did do that in the past. When things don't work out with this new girl he will pull you back and act like he loves you again until the next girl comes along. Guys are like this until we are more mature and ready for a real relationship. Sounds like this guy is not ready yet.
I will tell you one secret if you want this guy back do the following it works every time!!
Start dating other people!
Let him know you are dating other people!
Don't ever show your emotions he gets off on how sad he makes you , makes him feel in control!
Act Happy!
Once he realizes you are over him he willl try to get you back we always want what we can't have!! Goodluck

heartbroken5 · Feb 21, 2011, 10:35 AM

I want to thank you sooo much for your reply. Your really sound experienced and as if you knew what happened. The thing is I don't want this guy back I only want to know how to forget him and stop loving him cose its been over a year now since he left me and I couldn't forget him. Another thing: he's still in love with this girl though there are certain circumstances and they can't be together and they both know this but he's with her now for over a year and he still loves her. Anyhow, I really thank you and I only want to stop crying over him and I want to have myself respect back cose I feel I lost it since I'm crying over someone who doesn't want me.

sorya · Feb 21, 2011, 07:51 PM

Well then my answer or advice to you would be to get out there and date there is no shortage of men out there you just have to find the right one. You cannot get over someone if you are cooped up inside and crying every night. Get out there and have fun you cannot heal your heart by closing it