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    lilyunderground Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 6, 2011, 09:54 AM
    How can I help him understand?
    My boyfriend just broke up with me this week and I was devastated.. It was sudden and I still had to go to school and see him be perfectly fine with all of it. I cried for 3 days after he broke up with me.. and I had been notified by a couple of girls in the bathroom that he had been calling me a baby, that I was acting immature, or I just wanted people attention. When in fact, I just missed him and wanted him to care about me like he said he did. Well on my way to the school counselor, I saw him walking with his friend and it just made me so mad inside to see that he can be so happy and laughing with his friends when all I do is cry. So I walked up to him (quite furiously) and asked (yelled at) him what gave him the right to call me a baby and immature. I didn't hit him I just held on to his arm so he wouldn't leave. I just kept yelling at him about how he doesn't understand and how mean he his being to me. I went and saw the counselor after that. Later, I found out he went to the main office and got me in trouble for touching him. After that, a good friend of mine told me she saw him coming back from the office and he spoke to her about how "*****y and annoying I was being" that I pissed him off so bad that he couldn't stand it. I don't recall doing anything to piss him off that badly. I am over him now, I'm just not over the lies and the pain. I want him to still be my friend so I can see him laugh again.. Not give me dirty looks. I just need a way to make our "friendship" be something better than him talking behind my back. He doesn't understand that I still can not live without him.. How can I help him understand?
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    Feb 6, 2011, 12:02 PM
    How long we're you together before he broke up with you, and what are your ages?
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    Feb 6, 2011, 08:40 PM

    Quit while you are ahead and leave him alone. He doesn't want to be friends and no matter how you feel about it, you can't make him do a thing. Look he has done nothing but get you in trouble so far and talk about you, so leave him alone, or it will get a lot worse.
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    Feb 7, 2011, 11:41 AM
    Forget hgim he don't care about you
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    Feb 8, 2011, 03:48 PM
    We were together for a bit. And it turns out he doesn't hate me. He does understand, he was just hiding it in front of people because he didn't want to show any feelings. He texted me today and told me he was really sorry about everything he was just going through a hard time too and that he was trying to "quit me cold turkey" I'm going to college in 6 months, and he didn't want to be with me, so he said he ended it before we got too attached. Which is understandable =] We laughed and joked like we were friends again. I'm happy now =D
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    Feb 9, 2011, 11:04 AM
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    Awwww that's good :)
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