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    yeayeah14 Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
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    Jan 5, 2011, 09:53 AM
    Is she really interested?
    Ok, to make a short story, I have known her for some months and we finally were able to go on a first date. Everything went really well, physical contact all the time, eye contact, good conversation flow, some mirrorring, well all the signs a girl shows when she's interested. We didn't kiss at the end but we ended it with a big hug. Also she said that she really had a great time. Now I'm trying to set up a second date and it gets complicated. Every time I call, she's really happy to hear from me but it's hard to get her for the date. She always reply to my calls and text... what do you think about it? And what should I do?
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    Jan 5, 2011, 09:57 AM
    How long has this been going on?
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    Jan 5, 2011, 02:17 PM
    If you know 1 of her friends ask 1 of them what her favourite movie is or what her favourite restaurant is then buy her fave movie and watch it with her or take her to that resurant, how can she resist. Free dinner especially as its her fave restaurant
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    Jan 5, 2011, 03:28 PM
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    Well that's what I wanted to do but the thing is it's hard to get that second date... she's busy but still seemed super interested... did I do something wrong? Like not rescheduling immediately after the first date?
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    Jan 5, 2011, 03:28 PM
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    Well it's been the first time for the second date but to get the first date it was the same took about 3 shots
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    Jan 5, 2011, 03:29 PM
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    Cause both we're busy with christmas time and stuff... and when we were able to get together it was awesome we really had a great time
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    Jan 6, 2011, 08:15 AM
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    Magic pencil has a good suggestion, also take your time, don't try to rush. Some people take their time.
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    Jan 6, 2011, 08:16 AM
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    If its meant to be it will be.
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    Jan 6, 2011, 08:38 AM

    IF she's really that interested, she would find the time.

    Because you have feelings for her, you might misinterpret her friendliness as being something more.

    Sounds more like she already put you in the friends zone and friends don't need to see each other so frequently. If she really had interest in you, should would find the time.

    You can keep trying, but I wouldn't hold out too much hope with her.
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    Jan 6, 2011, 10:37 AM
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    Just ask her, it's the best way. That's what I would want my boyfriend to do
    , just be open and honest
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    Jan 6, 2011, 12:36 PM

    Sounds to me like she really likes you, but it may just be as a friend.

    It's a possibility that she's really busy. Problem is that generally a girl that is interested will say that they're too busy for the next few weeks, but will set something up for a few weeks down the road. Since she didn't do that, I have to agree with Iwish... she may want to just stay in the friend zone.

    The only real way to know is to ask her straight out.
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