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shanny_2006 · Dec 6, 2007, 08:07 PM

I asked a guy friend of mine to hook me up with his friend and he ended up giving me his friend's email address. I asked my guy friend if he thinks his friend likes me and he told me yes. So I took the initative and started talking to him and stuff. We basically flirted and stuff. He told me like everything there is to know about him. We also started sitting together during class time.
I heard rumours that he had a girlfiend and I asked him about it and he said no, he doesn't have a girlfriend.It's his ex. He then asked why that is so important since we were basically friends.
I told him that it was important because I liked him more than a friend but the reaction he then gave me ,was that first we must be friends and stuff like that.
I ended up stop talking to him because of this. His so called 'ex girlfriend' found out about me and confronted him about it and he became angry and sent me a text saying that he didn't like me from the start and that he led me on. He also said in the text that he told his guy friend that introduced us that he didn't like me and I wasn't his type.

Im confused if he didn't like me from the start why did he share his life story with me? Why did he flirt so much with me online? I don't understand. Do u think he was seriously intersted in me or was taking me for a fool? Why didn't his friend tell me that he didn't like me from the start?

nkychic · Dec 6, 2007, 08:58 PM

First off, if he says he doesn't like you, I think you should leave it at that. Guys have a weird way of showing feelings sometimes, but you don't want to waste your time with a guy that has blatantly told you that you weren't his type. As for the friend not telling you from the beginning that this guy said that.. well of course he should have. You have to understand though that contrary to most belief, not all guys enjoy hurting girls. He may have just thought he was doing you a favor by causing you pain, when instead it hurt you more by him lying. Move on girl. I'm sure there are plenty of other guys out there. Don't spend all your time trying to catch this one. Who knows, maybe later on, he will change his mind and you will be together. Until then, live your life!!

<3 Leslie

Homegirl 50 · Dec 6, 2007, 09:08 PM

The more I read these things I see that young people flirt and it means nothing. He and his "ex" may have been on a "break" or he was just seeing what you were like.
Aren't you trying to get an old boyfriend back? Maybe this guy is doing the same thing you're doing, testing the waters.