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    rulebreaker Posts: 5, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 19, 2008, 03:11 PM
    Why wouldn't they be interested?
    I recently moved to another city and got in a group of friends(15-20), most of them girls, though. I'm going out with them quite often, having fun, no stress, dancing with many of the girls in our group, complimenting them, hoping that at some point some of them will react somehow. They like me around them, I know that because when for some reason I'm missing a party they'd call me to see what's going on. I know that many of my potential targets are single and I also overheard that many of them find me attractive. I'm not trying anything concrete besides just short flirts with some of them sometimes, I'm just being nice, helpful etc. (one of them even told me that I'm being too nice sometimes and that guys shouldn't be like that).
    Anyway, despite all these, none of them seems interested. Or is it just me not noticing? What is actually going on? Thanks!
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    Jul 19, 2008, 03:21 PM
    It sounds like you are doing the exact right thing. If one of these girls doesn't fall for you, someone else will. The word is out on the street, of course, so your reputation as a super nice guy will get around. Have you fallen for one of these girls yet? (P.S. How old are you?)
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    Jul 19, 2008, 03:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl
    It sounds like you are doing the exact right thing. If one of these girls doesn't fall for you, someone else will. The word is out on the street, of course, so your reputation as a super nice guy will get around. Have you fallen for one of these girls yet? (P.S. How old are you?)
    I'm twenty something. I was at some point really interested in one of them and things were going nice (I was supposed to cook for her one night, but it didn't happen because of our schedules) until I found out she was seeing somebody and I backed off. In the meantime they broke up, but ironically she doesn't seem to be interested in me anymore..
    And yeah, I'm being nice, gettin' a reputation here, more and more friends, but doesn't seem to help...
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    Jul 21, 2008, 04:34 PM
    Stay the course. Friendship... flirting... attraction... mutual connection... dating... success.
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    Jul 22, 2008, 10:33 PM
    The Friend Zone! :) You don't know how many of your "girl-friends" are talking amongst themselves about what a great catch you would be! It's possible that no one is saying anything because more than one is into you. Hey... it's possible!
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