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confused_xox · Jan 4, 2011, 08:47 PM

OK.. I'm with a boy , and I'm nearly with him a year . We always fight but I am really in love with him and I now he is really in love with me ! But I'm starting to fall for my ex again.. I just can't seem to forget about him . And as well I'm only young (15) and don't want to be in a long term relationship I just want a bit of freedom.. but I know ill miss my boyfriend ! Im so confused . Can someone help ? Thanks xox

drophammer · Jan 4, 2011, 09:23 PM

1. Always be honest - with yourself as well as with others.

This should be a good indication that you are not ready to be in a relationship with either of them. That is not to say that you can't date them (just be up front and honest about it), but you are obviously not at a point where you can commit to a relationship. That is fine, just be clear and honest about it.

And then, look at the reactions of each of them. Those reactions could give you some additional insight into each.

talaniman · Jan 5, 2011, 08:06 AM

Keep it friendly and casual with them both, an be honest about the fact you love your freedom, like them all and don't want to be a girlfriend.

overthinker_17 · Jan 8, 2011, 04:21 PM

Look I get you I'm 15 too.im not really going to write what happened to me cause its quite long so ill just get to my point of advice.
You are not in love with your boyfriend, you think you really are but you just might not be.and about your exboyfriend think about it and ask yourself why you miss him and does he still give you signals that he still likes you too?
Before you decide to do anything think it over, don't cause yourself more pain and confusion.I really hope this helps.