[swimmingguru101]

My boyfriend kissed me and I realized that I didn't have any feelings for him. How do I let him down easy?
Also, some of his friends are telling me that he probably is in love with me and I've only been out on 2-3 dates with him. It sounds a little weird to me. What do you think I should do?

[I wish]

You guys sound really young. How can you love someone have 2-3 days...

Just tell him that at first you weren't sure of you feelings for him, so you gave him a chance, but now you realize that you don't feel the same way.

[roxypox]

I agree with I wish. It does sound as if you are really young... and it does sound strange that you can be in love with someone after only a few dates.

The advice I wish (sorry ;) had to spread rep) was really good! Tell him you wanted to give it a shot, but you don't feel the same way he does.

Best of luck!

[N0help4u]

If he is in love with you after only 2 or 3 dates he very likely could be the insecure clingy/needy type

Tell him you aren't that interested in him since you hardly know him and you are not all that interested in a boyfriend right now. If he is okay with that proceed with caution. If he gets too clingy/needy tell him you feel that you should see less of each other and back away before you get in too deep.

[Fr_Chuck]

In the end, you just be honest if you don't have feelings.

[joshdom]

Tell him, it will hurt no matter what

[talaniman]

You may as well be honest, so you both can move on.

[AManWithNoName]

Leave him, shouldn't lead him on making him thinking you love him, it will hurt more knowing you never loved him

[hamada123]

Tell him things moved to fast you like him better as a friend. Make it really clear leading guys on sucks.