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bcox · Jan 24, 2007, 11:12 AM

I live in California and I have been divorced for about 8yrs. My 15yr. Old daughter for the past 2yrs. Has been living with her father. She refuses to have anything to do with me and has told me to get out of her life. I have tried to be in her life and talk about our problems, but it doesn't matter. We have gone to mediations, counseling and still no change. Her father doesn't care and says it is between me and her and he is staying out of it. Now after so much time and so many words, I have given up. I am tired and I am at the point where now I want to give up my parental rights to my ex. I would like to know on how to go about this and what paper work is needed to begin the process.

ScottGem · Jan 24, 2007, 11:14 AM

What do you think you would be giving up? If you don't want to be a part of your daughter's life, then just stop. There is no reason to sign anything. Just don't visit, don't call, don't contact.

bcox · Jan 24, 2007, 11:20 AM

I am paying child support,

ScottGem · Jan 24, 2007, 11:23 AM

So? Giving up your parental rights does not relieve you of your parental responsibility. There are umpteen threads here that deal with the same issue and the answer is always the same. Parental rights and parental obligations are two different things. Giving up your rights does not relieve you of your obligations. If there is court ordered child support, that would not be affected by a relinquishment of your rights.

Fr_Chuck · Jan 24, 2007, 11:30 AM

Yes, I don't understand why people believe giving up a right, gets rid of an obligation, visitation, custody are not related at all to child support, they are two different issues, one can not stop paying child support because they don't get visitation and one is not suppose to stop allowing visitation if the other party does not pay child support,

Giving up rights, only does that, you have no say at all, no right to visit.

You can not give up your obligation to pay child support, not unless your ex is remarried and the step parent wants to adopt.

dortiz6411 · Feb 18, 2007, 06:19 PM

Hey California I am going through the same thing you are except I am the mother and the father fills there head with so much bull crap... so I too am looking to give my parental rights up... let me know what paper work to get so I may go through the same process...

J_9 · Feb 18, 2007, 06:31 PM

Dortiz6411, you do understand that if you are required to pay support, giving up rights will not change that don't you?

Fr_Chuck · Feb 18, 2007, 06:38 PM

No they don't understand, these are people who don't want to pay the money for their children, If it was that easy the jails would not be full of people who did not pay their support.

J_9 · Feb 18, 2007, 06:39 PM

Yes, you are right of course. If it worked that way then there would be a line a mile long at the courthouse.

excon · Feb 18, 2007, 06:39 PM

Hello doritz:

When you give up your rights you gain nothing! Let me say that again. THERE IS NO BENEFIT TO GIVING UP YOUR RIGHTS! Shall I say it another way? Why would you spend time, money and effort to go to court to GIVE up something and NOT GET ANYTHING in return??

I don't understand. I don't understand.

excon

ScottGem · Feb 18, 2007, 06:41 PM

Originally Posted by dortiz6411

hey california I am going through the same thing you are except I am the mother and the father fills there head with so much bull crap....so I too am looking to give my parental rights up.....let me know what paper work to get so I may go through the same process.....

Did you bother reading the answers in this thread? What didn't you understand about them?