[jesslovescody]

OK so there's this chick that's a grade younger than my boyfriend and I and she likes him. But he doesn't like her like that back. She hates me and I hate her too. I can tell that she's flirting with him. But he's her friend and I don't want to tell him who to and not to be friends with. But like I seriously cannot stand this girl. And sometimes I scare myself by thinking that he might like her. But I know he doesn't like her and I know that he loves me with his whole heart just as I love him with my whole heart. Is it bad to seriously hate this girl? Does this make me a jealous girlfriend?

[Jake2008]

The best thing you can do, is realize that, she is not a threat to you. You have no reason to hate her, or dislike her, or engage in any animosity whatsoever. Your relationship with your boyfriend is solid, he's being truthful, and that is all that should count. You will drive yourself crazy if you start second guessing your boyfriend, or your relationship; it will certainly put a wedge into things, and that would give this girl some wiggle room.

Try not to create a problem, where none exists. Don't talk about her, be cordial and polite, and take the high road here. She is not a threat to you, and by you allowing yourself to get worked up over her, only suits her purpose of the ancient practice of 'divide and conquer'. Don't give her, by your own actions, reason to believe that she is important or significant in any way, shape, or form.

The more importance you put on her, means the more power you give her over you, your feelings, and your relationship.

It takes practice,but you will see a difference, and feel so much better, if you see that any interraction with her (even silently) is encouraging her, not discouraging her.

[girlfriend12]

Problaby he's using you to make the cute jelouis so he can use you toget hot girls then when he doesn't need you anymore hell dump you

[girlfriend12]

Well at least you have love

[Enigma1999]

If he is going to leave you, then he is going to leave you.

I wouldn't be jealous of her, or anyone else for that matter. It's negative energy that is a waste of time.

You said it yourself, he is not interested in her. So trust that.

There's pretty women all over as well as good looking men, and you can't be intimidated by everyone or anyone who is pretty.

Don't hold him down. Men don't like that one bit, not to mention, jealousy is not attractive. Confidence is.

Trust your boyfriend. She's not a threat.

And hey, if he does want her, well then there's nothing you can do about it, plus you don't want him any way...

Good luck.